Wednesday, June 26, 2013

blue sky

如果我的祝福
能够让你不再感到孤独
这属于春天的音符
我最美的祝福
是送给你成长的礼物
如果我的付出
能够让你不再傍惶无助
我愿将所有的希望
化成亮丽的阳光
照亮你心灵最深处
爱就是对明天的期待
对生命的关怀
擦亮你心窗抹去尘埃
喔你将会看见
窗外依然有蓝天




Sometime, there are someone in our circle of friends are facing some difficulty or not so happy situation which we dont know until we catch up with them or they come to us. Sometime when we send out a simple message to friends 'Hi, how are you?' The replies from friends might be different.

Sometime, normal chit chatting between friends can lead to more serious stories of our friends. So what I am trying to say is, we might not be able to meet up our friends often, but we shouldn't stop messaging or checkin our friends latest update. I admit, in this effort, I am not good enough, always telling myself I am busy with my family and children, in fact, a simple message sending out is less than a minute.




Lately I have a friend who is facing complication in marriage. Shocking news to me on what she has been going through. I don't know how to help her out, so I seek guidance from my cell group members. They given me few numbers.



Today if you come across my blog. If you or your family and friends are having some personal or family or mental concerns that need someone professional to listen to, you can try the above numbers. If you search on web, they are many counseling units provide help and free consultation to needy. The above numbers are part of the big group.



Am happy my friend follow up to the psychiatric and seek professional advise. From her sharing, she understands her own condition better and this is somehow calm herself to move forward. Women need to love ourselves, sometime we hide our not so happy stories down in our hearts. This is not right. In fact, it is not easy to face all the sadness alone. I have gone through some not so alright journey, sometime in the midnight, still staying in fear and crying alone. I told my friend, I might see the psychiatric too when it is necessary, sometime, our sadness or fear just need a professional end :)



Remember, rainbow is always come after the rain. Then you see sunshine too. The purpose of this post is, stop get depression or frustrated with your current living, if it is not up to your satisfaction level, go out and share your stories with girl friends as they might have 1001 similar stories to share with you, from there you see how other people facing their difficulty. Or, if more serious condition that need professional advisor, you can try those non profitable units or paid clinic to help you through the challenging path of life.

Thank you. Hehe. Finish reporting on what I been wanted to share. Reaching station. Tata!



Don't forget to love yourself!

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