Month end

Now we are at the moment to discuss my October babies bday celebration.


The chat is all about I will have the big bday party for my children at the age of 10, 12, 16, 18, 21. The rest mummy no more be incharged :p

At this 988 age, children are wishing for bday presents. Bigger boy and gals toys or accessories. Looking for idea for bday cake deco, don't want children comment as 'childish'.

In Sunday school, there are always children at the age of 11 and 12, they don't sing and do action during praise and worship session. I always like to target this group of students, 'come, teacher sings and you do the action or you do the singing then teacher do the action' some cuter boys follow me. Then you can listen to the boys' friends whispering 'hey, stop doing this, you look so girly, this is a girl song' hahaha in real soon, am going to experience those challenging moments with my teenagers children :)



So what is on for today - the last day of September 2014. Supposed to look for bday present for royee boy, just realized I have a workshop session over lunch time. Hmm. This morning, when I was about to leave the house, I said bye bye to the boy who walking towards shower room.

Mummy: bye bye~
Royee: ....
Mummy: Bye Bye!
Royee: ...
Mummy: hello! Bye! Bye!

Then the boy came to me, yes, in his bday suit and smiling at me. He looked so wanting for my hug, but at this age, he was shy to speak it out. I just got closer to him and hugged him.

Royee: bao bao (hug hug)
Mummy: why should I hug a naked boy in the morning ya?

Royee and mummy laughing ^^

I hope the bonding need gonna stay in us till children grown up. And I wonder, till which age, they still allow mummy to see them hug them - with their naked bodies :p



Read on the Japanese family members bathing together. This is not common in our culture. However, at my home, it is a common thing for me and children being naked in the room and do the talking ^0^

Reaching office. Wish for a productive Tuesday ^^


Found this amusing.. :p

2909 Monday

Having runny nose. Guess my body is tired.


Do you like your current you?

Hmmm.. Throwback moment. I am not at my peak of health. Though I don't have those high blood pressure, high cholesterol etc from my latest medical report shown. But definitely I have high fat and low immune system :~ to workout something.


Children bday is coming real soon, will have a birthday party cum family gathering on this weekend. Last night when we went out to buy children bday party shirts, only I realized, they no longer like colourful cartoon t-shirt, they prefer simple and soft tone design, the prefer formal smart looking. They are no longer babies.

So when we discussed on bday party theme for this year, they rejected all my proposal. Well, I know I am kinda childish - animals party, frozen, ninja turtle... From the shirts they chosen, I know what they want is simple and comfortable.


Children grown up started doing grown up activities. Happy to see this.



They discuss on what is worth to buy what is not


They are collaborative


They share the plan


They learn together

Sometime when I think of one day of they leave me for their further study, then what I want to do? Guess I would be holding my phone all the time to hoping for messages and notes from the children. Or better still.. I fly over to them and bugging them everyday haha :D

Few days left to come out the party stuff, the menu of the day, the cake ordering.. Hope we can have a good family gathering as well as, children got the fun time in celebrating their bday at this exciting age :)



This is mummy bday gift from mummy best friend ^^ ya, age of 35, matured age comes with the worry of reaching 40! Wow! Sounds old @_@



Catching up with forever best friends ^^














Always J13219 ^^

Happiness

想像中有一個幸福天地
分分秒秒踩在雲端裡
好像幸福只存在 童話故事裡

自從耶穌進入我的生命
心中眼睛被主愛開啟
看見幸福的天地 就在我心裡
它並不是遙不可及
也不需要完美主義
它是真實而簡單地 活在主愛裡

幸福是珍惜現在擁有的
感謝上帝供應
幸福是分享自己領受的
叫別人得利益
幸福是相信聖經所寫的
每句都是真理
幸福是卸下重擔給上帝
因祂必看顧你
happiness is treasuring what we are having, give thank to God's supply.
Happiness is sharing what we have received so people can gain.
Happiness is believing in all written in the bible, each sentence is the truth.
Happiness is offload your burden to God as He is surely watching over you.

Listening to this song. Feeling loved :)

This morning I shared with children on our schedule from tonight till Sunday. Then for the next weekend plan. Feeling blessed to have children who are always supportive and attentive to all the plans and ideas that suggested by parents. Quite friendly and easy going hehe.


October babies~ Ya. October coming, a super happening month to my family. Need to sit down and plan for all these special annual occasions. Family bonding time!

Having slight worry this morning. School is having pre-sport day today, but my Eva is not wearing sport wear. Can she joining the run? Feeling bad now. Anyhow, need to let her bear all the good or bad happening as she is the one left the sports wear in the day care center.


Happy Friday!

Tight schedule

I love Malaysia. The blue sky calls the children do not give up. To chase after your own dream! The big ocean makes us think of the fish that caught by the fisherman with hardship. The land always filled up with laughter. Morning birds flying all around. The people on this land live freely with no problems and worries. The local custom and attractions are so awesome. This land's local dishes are in variable choices. The multi languages have united the people in this land.

一个小孩印象中的国家。很多时候，当初的美好画面，在逐渐成长后经过种种的诱惑与负性灵的摩擦后，变质了。信心也减退了。还是要为了帮助我们的下一代，多为国家的和谐祷告。

Good day! Sharing the piece of 'satu Malaysia' passage written by my gal. You see the reasons for children to love a country are simple. A positive message to remind adults, don't lose the initial passion towards your country and your dreams.

Last night my mum came to my house. Children were excited with those delicious home cooked dishes. I ate dinner and supper too! Mum helped out with housework too. I really appreciated the effort. The feeling is so great when a lovely helping hand lending at these busy schedule :)

Sis and I are everyday saying 'I want to travel!' We been always wanting a good release. But most of the time, we spend time sleeping in the hotel when we travelling :p no joke, we are now cant even have a good night sleep at home. Sob sob.



Sometime, i do hope that people don't see me for a certain period so I can live in my isolated world - well, for a short period of time.

Last night Eva told me there will be the school sports day on next Saturday. Shall I cancel my 3days family travel plan with my church members? Hmmm.. Children at this age, their commitment and schedule has became my priority. Because whatever decision we make or the way we treating their commitment, gonna be the judging elements - if mummy is a good mummy. Well, believe it or not, maybe children are more sensitive at this pre-teen age, most of my everyday, my children mention this '妈咪不好 mummy is no good' ahhhhh.. Come on, what else you all want from an exhausted working mother? Hoh!!!



If you love him, then stop grumbling


Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure ~Philippians 2:14-15


Ok stop bising bising. I have 3 lovely children to company me in my everyday from the day I given birth to them. Balance point is what I need to manage.

Pen off, feeling sleepy. Not even start working already feeling tired ooo :p can't wait for the coming of this weekend.. And all others holidays! :D


Happy Thursday!

Fullness

Mind is full with plans and ideas
Plate is full of pending task to do
But body is lacking of energy to move forward more confidently.


Exhausted at body


Fighting!


At the battle field! Attacks from everywhere!


All the above comics are from my royee boy hehe. He is into comic drawing now, hopefully he can use this skill to do something good in the future. Sending the good news to people :)

I'm not good at drawing. More to multimedia thingy. Hope one day I can use my son's drawing + multimedia channels, together we do something good ^^

How's thing? I am not at the peak of my performance lately, too many things on my plate, not good at time management, hope that I won't stay at this state anymore longer, as the spirit and engagement to be a good performer would be dropped. In fact, I have given up few times >< this morning I again refreshed my mindset, I told my children, we shouldn't give up when things are not working right as per our plan. If we leave the situation at it is, then we gonna be a loser. We should fight over the challenge and stand at the peak of the mountain to celebrate the achievement! Sound positive? Hehe

Last night children and I got a good session of praise and worship practice at the church. In an hour, we sing we dance we do action. A free class of aerobic to sweat myself :p children learn to be in front of the crowd to build their confidence level and presentation skills. Blessed to have the class which children and I can together learning new things and build the bonding at the same time. Best of all, we serve The Lord together :)



Something for Sunday school. Gift for all the children.


This is the place where I rebuild my spirit and energise myself to move forward to meet the challenges everyday :)

Looking forward to meet up with my best gal friends this weekend. Feel so sorry for can't commit my time firmly. Don't feel to disappoint my children on their request. And of course, not going to miss the chance to catch up with treasured friendship. Hope, things go well ^^



The cute piece of royee boy to end this post. Have a good Wednesday!

2209 back to school

Back to school!



As usual, 1st day be back to the school, we got havoc morning at home and in the journey to the school. Children rushing in completing their homework in the car, then mummy again and again would be saying this 'you all were too busy with your uno games for a week? So busy until you can complete your homework?' Well.. Children nowadays they won't feel guilty for their faults, 'mummy, can you drive slowly? How to write when the car is non stop moving?' Hmmm mummy's fault @_@


Yesterday morning I played uno card games with royee boy. Wonder if I have forgotten the game rule or this boy cheated me by setting the new rules which are more beneficial to his condition ><

Shall buy more board games for bbb, so they can occupy their times playing together when I have some time to rest :p of course, they shout and yell when playing games. People might think I got a kinder home @_@



Children growing up taller and smarter. They started talking about the classmates having mobile phones and they stored some sexy girls photos. When the conversation was on and on, finally I couldn't stand on it so I interrupted the siblings talk. Guess what, standard 2 and 3 children talking and discussing with me topic likes homosexual, adultery, having babies at young age. Hmmm.. I recalled myself asking question 'what it meant by 'chicken' or prostitute when I read the subject on the news paper at the age of 9. My parents didn't clearly answer the question. Today, my children can share with me, the young girl can get money to buy what they want by having promiscuous relationship with guys. Ohh!! My children are not naive like I used to be at their age.



At this golden age, build children good character by spending more time with them. Using God's words to guide them in their decision and judgement making and judgement making. Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. 教养孩童，使他走当行的道，就是到老他也不偏离。 am keep reminding myself on this responsibility.



When come to Sunday school teachers meeting, the same concern and challenges arise are - children nowadays their behaviours and discipline are not controllable! Last time when we talked about simple task eg to take a class photo, all students were stand or accordingly to teachers instruction. But today, when 2 to 3 teachers handling less than 12 students, we take minutes. Still, the outcome of the final pic, still got children covering their faces, looking at left or right.. Macam Macam Ada.



The best piece of 7 snaps


See the tongue out?


See few of them staring at the floor?


U spotted the creative pose boy..


The left and right boy and girl, took me 10 snaps @_@



Std 6, I don't want to snap a pic! Need to sweet talk to get them in the pic


Std 1 is far more behaved :)


This pic snapped after teachers got angry hehehe


Penat jugak to get a best shot


The purpose of the class photos are to make something for the birthday celebration for all the primary department students in the Sunday schools.



Ever since I joined Sunday school teachers, got to learn more parenting tips and knowledge in handling children. At the same time, see different age levels students behaved, so I can get more ready to my own children growing and expected behaviour and attitudes.


Guess most of the parents are having those I love you I hate you moments with their children. Last Saturday when we supposed to have a sisters relaxing food hunting outing, ended up with sister having burning fire towards the cutie little devil.



Hahaha.. Moral of the story, just buy some simple foods and stay at home, if the devil doll is to stay with us :p or better still, travel without children so sis won't get hypertension kakakka :D


'What now?!' :p



Well, enough talking about sweet and cute children. Reaching office to handle matured stuff - stressed tasks. Got nightmares on people chasing me to complete pending jobs.. I need a rest >_<

Good week ahead!