Children

内疚.......
不断的摸索自己
企图改变一些叹息
我知道你对我的期许
是将来眼光的抵御
你今日无助的词句
都带着明日的讯息
我知道你对我的心意
而我就是有心无力
我还有什么可以给你
我不断的问自己
我不断的想 不断的在找寻
我知道你一直都很辛苦
为我默默地付出
就算流泪也不承认你哭
我是身在福中不知福
所以我用尽我的全部
来告诉你我没有认输
还有什么可以给你
我的爹娘我的父母
还有什么可以给你
我的爹娘我的父母

This lyrics may tell most of the children feeling towards their parents. Me belief is, no children want to be a failed person who disappoint their parents expectation. As we always come across this statement 'there is no stupid and naughty child, only adult who is not using suitable way to teach the child'.



Came across friends and colleagues telling me as a good mother, I have patience and passion towards my children. I do children favourite things together with them, my children are good children. Frankly speaking, in my family, in my husband eyes, in my sister witness, in many teachers records, I am not a good mother who raises behaved and good children.


With all the negative feedback received, I am now in the state of, directionless in motherhood. I keep thinking how to make good to all these, and yet, I have not doing thing right. If 8-9 years old children norm to behave like this? Or only my children? Or am I too sensitive and want my children to be perfect in character build up?



I lectured royee for not writing his name neatly. I am angry for him not respecting his own name. I am helpless on his getting-worse violence and hot tempered behaviour.


I always try to make angel smile from the heart. I feel frustrated when I see her stays in her self- sadness world. I dislike her negative thinking. I worried her character can lose her hope in the living.


For a smart girl like Eva, she excels on her class achievement, academy and co-curriculum, however, I want her to be humble, I worry her proud attitude would bring her to difficult condition one day. I want her to learn to accept failure, as there will be more challenges in our lives ahead.




Many small things make me feel I am a failed mother in educating children. Hmmm. Always pray from God to give me wisdom and patience in handling children education. Conflict in children education belief, can spoil husband-wife relationship too.



When come to office asking for what we want to excel in our career, I told my boss, I have no idea in my current situation, as I am now at the critical timing to make my children to be good, get ready them to fly independently and firmly towards their future. Not easy to get a balance between good career and good mother role.

Come this parenting talk at this moment, is a big inspiration to me.


'How to balance love and standard in teaching children?' Hope I can understand more on teaching good and disciplined children ^^ feeling hope! Additional bonus is, can bring along children with me, as there would be teachers having activities with children while parents listening to the talk. What a good family activity ^^



Hope all parents have strength and wisdom in raising good character children. Hope all children feel loved and protected. We are not lonely, God is with us :)

Looking forward to this Saturday morning breakfast with children :)



See the happy sunny face of the sun of hope? Attendance list for bbb friends :) looking forward to 1st in my life - bbb's friends may come to our house this sunday ^^