still cant forget how i got hurt last week when i saw laogong bought a cane to prepare to cane or warn my children. i got shocked when i see a new cane in laogong's car. it was on the way to company laogong go to the shopping mall for dont know what reason. i was so emotional, i just wanted to get down from the car. maybe you can say my response is too over, but i just cant accept, why we need to cane our ownself? we feel pain when we punish our own children. we feel regret sometime. then why we cant teach children LOVE?
i like this "forgiveness is giving up my right to hate you for hurting me". the power of non-violence is super! if you know how to tackle your children with their characters. some children you need to be harsh, some you need to be soft and sentimental.. i always tell laogong, whoever use cane to cane the children, means that he or she has no confidence to score well in parenting. we learn everyday, we need to learn our children and their feeling too. instead of reading so many books on financial money matters, might as well spend a little more time in parenting knowledge and sharing.
huhhhhh... you dont know me.. but i cried last weeks few times, because of the cane, because of missing my son, because of having conflict with laogong on teaching children... laogong said 'let me manage your income, coz i know you can give everything to the children' ohhh.. i just ignore him, coz i dont have much money for you to manage. and if i have extra money, why i cant spend the money on my children? anyhow they are my sunshine, they are my happiness. they come from me, if i dont love them, who else will love them in heart?
for the pass week, am so emotional. my period delay, so my body just feel not comfortable... can cry while driving because of ppl story sharing. ohhh... i just dont want to be sorrow during cny..
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