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good morning Saturday!


my thea nephew is doing sun bath :p so adorable! been missing him everyday. bought some cute plain colour cloth, want to challenge myself to sew him baby shirts :p

today royee's school is having replacement class for cny holiday. am thinking to prepare him lunch box so he can use mummy's homecook today :D



nowadays my sis has been appointed to be the official driver to royee :p so everyday after work, sis picks up royee from the childcare center. then have dinner together.



my sis supervised royee do homework. and guess what? sis and I also don't know how to answer the std1 malay language question >_<


I even mms to my Malay colleague to ask for the answer :p


my sis can't accept this. coz my son looked down at her 'do you know Malay language?' hahahah :D


after google images search and iPhone application downloaded.. finally we confirmed the answer ^0^

now I understand why there are lots of students in tuition centre and parents are 'willingly' pay the tuition fees. coz what children learn nowadays are different from our time. even for the very common maths, they have different way of solutions to come out with the answer. if you browse thru the activity books for primary school at the bookstore, you may get shocked! - to me, at least.



anyway, children have their own development pace, as parents, we need to be patient to them and guide them when it is necessary. for the above, this is angel's homework, 1st time I seen this. most of the character she written them reversed. she might be not focus at the time she completing this homework. so I SMS the teacher, to get angel to redo her homework.



sometime, we need to check if the child playing tricks or this is because of their age development. if you check each of the reversed writing, you find this is a 1-off writing, and the character is mirror reflection. so, this can be auto image generating when the child is writing. at age of 6, some children still need time to adjust this. everyone to work hard lo!



finally I got the drawing from the art class teacher on the drawing that royee won an award in Taiwan art exhibition ^^

zzz

02:37 am still awake @_@
don't know how to open my eyes in this communication session later on...



hmmm.. I like this design very much. cute dino with red tie and overall colour match.. well, syiok sendiri :p

ahhh... just finished a bottle of collagen, coz I don't want to scare ppl of in the office :(

hmmm... am worried about my sis who has been having fever for 5 days.. worried about her, and the little precious one...

thea baby

hehehe.. new born


cute cute oooo ^^


this is the pic, my thea nephew doing sunbath :p

ya, my laogong's bro just got a new baby, and his wife is from china, so I got a china sis in law :D it is nice to have someone in the family about the same age you can talk to :)


I told sis in law I dream about I got a new born baby gal, but then the baby didn't want to drink my breast milk. kekeke silly dream right?



this is conversation on how long we need to sunbath our babies to avoid baby got jaundice.


this is I asked the mummy and baby to get warm from the sunlight, to build energy and get healthy :)

seen the baby when I went back in law house for chap Goh meh makan makan. look at the new parents taking care their baby I feel so warm :)



changing diaper and pyjamas..


the papa is massaging the baby ^^ mama is enjoying the happiness :)



feeling papa's love :)



laogong busybody ><


me too! hehe


happy treasured moments - grandma and grandchildren chit chatting happily :D



laogong and his mama ^^


me and my in law mama ^^


excuse me, I have to post 2 of my photos... coz my in law said I was pretty in this dress hahahaha :D eh, not I praise myself ya, is my in law told my laogong this in their language - teoh chew? and I somehow understand it :p

hoping all are in the pink of healthy and happy family forever :)

man vs woman

woman remember the man who made her laugh,
man remember the woman who made him cry,
however till the end,
woman stays with the man who made her cry
and man stays with the woman who made him laugh
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well, just feeling emo with laogong :(

happy thaipusum

to you :)


very nice colours combination. I like.



end of cny for 2012... so everything should be back to normal.

many things I want to do and learn, many changes I feel to make. the most important thing is, I want to get my body healthy! my internal body seems to be in a very red alert stage so the signals appear in my tongue and finger nails :~

"人体是个有机的整体，五脏六腑不论是哪个器官功能虚弱或失调，都会影响其它脏腹器官的功能。脾胃虚弱，要先从调理脾胃入手。
脾是气血生化之源，脾胃功能强健了，人体气血充足，病症自然就会消除。
你舌苔厚有齿印，说明脾虚，脾最忌水湿，只有脾功能强健了，才能化水湿，生气血。脾功能虚弱了，就容易生痰，一遇肝火，必然上升到脸上，以长痘痘的形式出现。舌头应该是胖大吧，如果是舌尖红，那是心火过旺，容易失眠多梦, 熬夜不休息，最容易造成肝火旺，肝血虚。不知道你眼睛干涩模糊不？还有四肢手脚无力，月经推迟，说明你有点气虚的倾向了。
调理脾胃去水湿，建议食疗方：山药薏米芡实粥。应该最适合你。另外夏天少食冷饮，不熬夜，少忧思。注意情绪稳定，不暴食暴饮，少辛辣。适量运动。"

the above, I found in the Internet, talking about depletion of our body spleen which is very important to do job in regards to our red blood cells and body immune system. so my to-do list is, make my spleen more healthier :D




ta-da! this is cute to share.

well, pen-off 1st. i want to enjoy my last day of these 4 days long weekend.

love

.....
just to test this application.. been having few days can't post to my blog.. reinstalled it and hope it works after this..

01022012

'久一点' these 3 words non stop repeating in royee's mouth and my hearts... I feel the pain and unwillingness.

kl off day. morning I sent royee to the childcare centre. evening I pick up him. pack dinner for him and supervise his homework. the homework load is tiring. I help out on cutting and pasting, then colouring parts.

non stop he asking me, what time are you leaving? '9pm' from then, non stop he asked me to stay for longer time. I was tired too. and I worried about angels' homework too. recently they were being lazy and playful.






by 9pm. me leaving..





still the boy asked me to stay longer.. at least until he sleeps..





mummy, can you not working tomorrow? mummy can you take leave? for 366 days? or at least 50 days..





laogong chased me away. he said, if I still stay there, the boy not going to finish his homework..





but the boy looked so sad.. begging and begging softly.. I asked him to snap pic, at least, he gonna smile in the photo.

on the way driving back home, my feeling was so mixed. I want royee to learn independent.. I want to stay with him everyday.. I want 1 family stay under one roof.. I want to stop working.. I want my own life too.. so confused :(

then I called laogong to check if royee was sleeping. laogong passed together phone to royee. a bit noisy in the conversation. I asked him what he was doing? '哭' I was confused, what ku? you mean crying? 'yes. 我在哭，我想念你'.. heart broken when I heard he was crying coz missing me :~

I get him to call me back when he is ready on the bed. so he called. I sing 2 songs - 'thank you Jesus' and 'in moments like these'.. after that, he said enough, he had kept the songs in his hearts...

I checked angels homework. they didn't do their homework. I wrapped their exercise books, placed the books on the table, so they can do the homework 1st thing in the morning.
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02022012 morning..

laogong called me when I was at the train station. he told me this..

= your son last night was busy packing his school bag, asked this and that should bring to school or not.. suddenly he became quiet. then I heard tear dropping sound.. he was crying. I asked 'why are you crying?' he didn't answer. 'you miss mummy?' he nodded his head "i miss mummy so much!" 'you faster pack everything then call mummy' =

now I can continue the scene when I called royee, he sounded 'noisy' over the phone. I don't know what should i do now except for waiting till Friday comes. next Monday and Tuesday are holidays too. I will bring children go outing, I want to go to the nature.. recently, just wanting to have fresh air and sweat myself out..

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last day of jan 2012. another 3 minutes to february. recalling my 2011 year end till the beginning of 2012, seems like, I have been losing myself...


a lot of things I have done, lots of photos I have taken.. but, I found emptiness?! or I shall say, I can't story telling what is actually being done? but in fact, I have done so many things which are very important to me in this life?

hmm.. 00:00 01.02.2012 today is a FT holiday. hope that I can have a good rest and battery charging time, then get myself boost up! maybe I have stressed out physically and emotionally, adapt to new change of many things.. even my period cycle can up to 50+ days?

yo! good night. a better months and days ahead!

non-violence in parenting

still cant forget how i got hurt last week when i saw laogong bought a cane to prepare to cane or warn my children. i got shocked when i see a new cane in laogong's car. it was on the way to company laogong go to the shopping mall for dont know what reason. i was so emotional, i just wanted to get down from the car. maybe you can say my response is too over, but i just cant accept, why we need to cane our ownself? we feel pain when we punish our own children. we feel regret sometime. then why we cant teach children LOVE?


i like this "forgiveness is giving up my right to hate you for hurting me". the power of non-violence is super! if you know how to tackle your children with their characters. some children you need to be harsh, some you need to be soft and sentimental.. i always tell laogong, whoever use cane to cane the children, means that he or she has no confidence to score well in parenting. we learn everyday, we need to learn our children and their feeling too. instead of reading so many books on financial money matters, might as well spend a little more time in parenting knowledge and sharing.


huhhhhh... you dont know me.. but i cried last weeks few times, because of the cane, because of missing my son, because of having conflict with laogong on teaching children... laogong said 'let me manage your income, coz i know you can give everything to the children' ohhh.. i just ignore him, coz i dont have much money for you to manage. and if i have extra money, why i cant spend the money on my children? anyhow they are my sunshine, they are my happiness. they come from me, if i dont love them, who else will love them in heart?


for the pass week, am so emotional. my period delay, so my body just feel not comfortable... can cry while driving because of ppl story sharing. ohhh... i just dont want to be sorrow during cny.. 

shone's diary 17012012

on 05012012

on 17012012

can you see his lose his chubby chubby :)

TGIF!

good morning Friday! a day I have been waiting for~~



^^


a bit down last night.. cried in the prayer, cried while singing, cried uncontrollable after I hang up the phone... till I watched the video clip that my sis sent to me - how bruce playing the games using his samsung galaxy tab hahahha :D so funny!

I know laogong is doing good job in handling royee boy. many things laogong needs to do indeed. we have bought 3 uniforms set, means that laogong need to wash and iron the uniforms for Thursday and Friday. 2 pairs of shoes, but the boy playing happily in the school, everyday to white shoes became black or grey shoes :S pack bags, 2 water bottles, check homework..

because royee is having some difficulty in learning with common teaching way, so we get him to do revision on what teachers teaching at the school. besides, we need to prepare him in advance for what teacher going to teach, so he is prepared. now everyday he is memorising the multiplication table of 2. it takes times.. but by the time teacher needs it, he is ready.

weekend, I do revision with him too. just to make sure he don't minus one for his maths answer. hmmm.. 2+8 = 9, 2x9 = 17.. wonder why his maths answer most of the time, he counted as 33, but answer written as 34 or sometime, 43. 17=71, 19=91..

patience and love is what we can give to him. and he needs to give himself confident and plenty of time in learning and adapting himself in this 'normal' world. because, there won't be always someone, write words for him at his back or palm, to let him 'feel' the word instead of 'see' the word.



am looking forward for tonight gathering, royee too. he 'YES!' when I said 'tomorrow is Friday!' :p

hmmm..

just wanted to say.. there is always dark side even the supposed-to-be guideline has set. the rule is not the rule, if higher authority can set the rule to wipe off the set rule.

sickening for unfairness. and am thankful that I am still surviving under these play rules. maybe, we have get used to it..

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well, change a better feel..


this is cute right? application 'line' to chat and voice call. sis recommend me to use, so the cute!! many more stickers and emoji icons :)



this is from sis..



this is what I have for lunch. it is tasteless coz I am sick :( got the doorgift as well. but I didn't attend the communication session coz today I am late to work. very slow traffic.

talked about traffic, let's share something scary and yet funny! or I would say - silly me :p

yesterday I was so sick, can't even stay till 6pm+ I took 5pm train went back home. when I reached at nearly banting, there were so many cars coz of school students going back home. suddenly there was an emergency break for the cars to stop for red traffic light. and, I pressed break to stop my car and I almost get hit the front car!

huh~ this is so scary and I thank God for being safe! so I continued driving back home for about 15 minutes? during the journey, I called my sis to chit chatting and told her about the nearly happened accident and even sing song together with her!

when I almost reached the housing area, I found out there was a car followed me to the left and to the right. I parked my car in front of my house, and the car stopped too! this is scary! I told my sis this over the phone the I saw a guy came down from the car.

'I followed you till here!' 😱 oh I didn't know I have being followed.. 'your car hit my car?' what? I thot I managed to stop the car to avoid the bang?! 'I heard the sound.. so I followed you.. your car ok?' then 2 of us walked to see my car front part - nice! nothing got scratched! then 2 of us walked to his car backside - wahh, nice metallic colour, nice car and it was still being shining without any scar!

but.. the guy still looking at his car 'it looks alright right? but why I heard the sound..' well come on, what you expect me to answer you, and I can't believe ppl can follow me for such a long journey without horn loudly to stop me.. can together waiting for few traffic lights and drive slowly back home :p

the story end with I asked him 'have I scared you? sorry..' but this made me hmmm 'I saw from the mirror, you were shocked when you stopping your car' and e smiled. wahhh.. I was recalling my expression, presentable or not har? or if I have any ugly pose along the way.. wahh there was someone followed an monitored me and I didn't know!

anyway, both of us smiled and bye bye.. waved hand like friends :p silly us. in fact, he is a good looking guy in his office wear. just wanted to let him know, if he happen to read this post :p am not purposely avoiding you, I continued drive back home coz I didn't hit your car. dont come to revenge or anything since you know my house oopss..

a long silly story, hope it didn't bore you. somemore, recalling this silly story, made me forget about the not very good feeling when I started this post.

😁

Thursday yip yip!

everyday cant wait till Friday and holiday so I can have all my children stay together >.< today am wearing WHITE, angel said mummy is an angel :D





just showing you the white, and very light beige colour short dress. don't want to show you my face, coz me been having flu and fever, my look is so x.x can you see my red nose? hmmm...





night before bbb meet up at klang, my papa mama bring angel to the ballet class on Tuesday night. Saturday class is for beginner, which I always send angel to the class. Tuesday class is for those who chosen and registered for the exam.





well.. hmm 3 days not washing the head, even my papa complained about the smelly head :p





ok, yesterday the boy felt down in the class... every morning, when I receive call from my laogong or sis, I whispering to myself 'what is happening? good news or bad news' or evening when I receive message or photos from my sis 'good one or heart attack one'.. if you ask me, how's the boy doing at school or staying with papa.. hmmm.. below are something that attacking my heart almost daily :p

 fire on the stove is not switching off the boy left the wallet on the room table (without money how to wat neh?)


lose the water bottle forgot to bring the school shoes!


1st week, change the sitting in the class twice! too talkative!


2nd week, teacher asks to push the tongue to the teeth, so the boy dont talk (this is what I disagree, to further investigate) 


the inner white singlet became colourful :( 


the white shirt is with colours! 


the school uniform shirt is with hole! coz felt down the bag is with a hole.. 


the colour pencil case lose the cover.. 


the water bottle hanger is going to break.. 


......  well, I should be happy that..


talkative, coz he enjoys the new change and make new friends.. 


so many things hole and dirt found out and reported coz my laogong is checking the boy stuff everyday.. 


the boy reported to me what he eat, what he does in the class - everyday! :p 

macam macam ada ooo.. stories at klang and banting to cherish my everyday day :)