cny day-1

since angels were sick, we changed our plan to stay at bkt31. cny day 1 in banting. mama told papa 'wahhh, 1st time our house is so happening with our children n grandchildren' ^_^ digo woke up early in the morning, then we all eating breakfast together. roti canai kosong. papa was so excited to have roti canai as breakfast, he even planned about it in the day before, n counted how many pieces :p

papa - wearing white, baru ONG :p
n royee n angel

2nd uncle n family visited our house

angel was moody, cried in the next pictures :~

hehe mama n baby

royee said 'zui du du'

1st day of cny, hmmm, nothing much for me. phobia to angels vomitting n diarrhea :~

gong xi fa cai 2009

Day 1 of cny. Raining day at banting. Kakak was waiting for nice fireworks, wat a disappointment. I have been waiting laogong to wish me happy new year, but he been busy with his laptops n mailbox. Hmm ya i got ang pow from laogong, it seems to be a BIG one as he mentioned. I havent opened it yet. I am more interested on his big warm hug in this cool rainy night.

Well, a peaceful n warm cny this year. Except i am kelam kabut about angels food poisoning. Hmm they lost weight.
Now they r still not ok :( sad..

Ok. Laogong is here. Want to ask for big hug before he falls asleep :p Blog next time. Gong xi fa cai ya!

cny reunion makan makan

supposed to have reunion luncheon at banting grandma's house then only dinner at sg buloh in law's house. early morning received a call from in law, to have makan makan at 11am. wear bbb new cloths, bought year back. angel n eva were so lembik :( they were so weak. they didnt smile. sad to see this. royee was so excited, especially when my mum helped him to gel his hair like daddy's hair style, he was running out from the room n to the hall, then turned back, 'wwooo.. so tired' everyone was 'hahahaha' this boy~ shy boy he is.

my royee boy was doing his business. so smelly!

angelina

evangeline

in law were happy to see the children, n they felt sad to see the 2 gals were so weak n only laying down at the room. taken some family photos, then we started our makan makan. hmmm dc31, my ex-home sweet home. some furniture arrangements have been changed. different feeling to step in the house after moving out. wondering if i would continue keeping this house till royee get married or not :p left sgbuloh at 1pm+ as angels were so cranky, non stop crying.

eva. on the way back to banting

angel. sleeping.

reached banting at 3pm+ we went to grandma's house. met uncles n grandma. non stop shonejay angels n yu jet were crying. i let kakak stayed there to help out my mum to pack things, i brought children back to parents' house.

my nephew. little yu-jet

me n sis

when bbb were sleeping, me n sis went to guardian pharmacy to buy some stuff. before that, we stopped at the massage saloon. sis spent me an hour foot massage. wow it was raining cats n dogs. the uncle told us not to get wet after massage, but then we didnt feel to stay in the shop n waiting for the rain to stop. so we running to the pharmacy, n we got wet :p

counting something..

royee and his blocks

follow grandma do cny prayer. n the prayer ends with royee's claps :p

at 12am+ it was raining, n since kakak said she wanted to see the fireworks, so we went out to see the fireworks. raining, n i need to carry royee. wow.. the fireworks were nice, but not many as compared to last year, maybe, it was raining. then all went in home n sleep lo~

pre-cny shopping

even angels are sick, we still carry out our pre-cny shopping plan, with the guilt in me :( sent royee to the kinder. then laogong n 1 went to damansara one-utama.

at one-u

'qiang qiang qiang' performance

waiting for laogong who gone to the toilet :p

lunch at seoul garden

cny deco in the restaurant

sis will love this restaurant ^_^

bbq n steamboat

yummy!

tried many cloths. some are very nice, but expansive. some are affordable, but not very ok with the design n material. hmmm anyway, we managed to grab few pieces of nice shirts n pants, n shopped till nearly 10pm! it was tiring. in the mall car park, get jammed. then once leave the mall, get jammed. everyone was busy on last minute shopping. overnight at bbt31, as we were so tired to drive back banting.

miss bbb :~

project 365

A Challenge A Commitment A Promise

i love this. a day a photo. my friend's blog. from day 1 in a brand 1 in a brand new year, a day a pic post. what can i do something similar like this? currently what i am doing is reading bible, follow the calendar. n another 2 books on thoughts about god.

hmmm may think of something special, n i am interested to start, say, in 2010. hehe. what came across my mind is 365 meals for a year, or recipe, or bbb, books i read, songs stories (this is my to-do list since last year, create a blog to share songs stories)

well.. think about the idea later la. suddenly think of what u told me last night 'i dont like ppl comment about my english, coz they also dont have good english. only u can comment about my english, coz your sentences are really nice n good' huh? my english? ok.. thank u. take it as compliment, although i know my english is poor :S n i got shocked when u told me the mail that u asked me to do some correction was from your boss. pls la, what i write is not always right, it might be only u get used to my words then u can understand my english more than other ppl english. or u should read my friend's 5stars-english blog :) anyway, hope one day i can study english to upper level like what i did last time in ELS. i love english language ^_^ (found this interest when i was age 18)

emergency leave

what a tiring day. last midnite i didnt sleep well. woke up at least 1 hour once to clean eva. non stop vomitting. it getting worse when came to 5am+ thick gastric juice thrown out. she couldnt stand well, she was so weak. i took shower, prepared to send her to the clinic. then, angel started coughing then threw out :( i let kakak to handle angel, i brought eva to the clinic, it was 6am. the doctor was sleeping. food poisoning. took the medic, then went back home. once reached home, kakak n i, non stop cleaning angels, changed their cloths, cleaned the floor. so kelam kabut. hubby helping to give medic to angels. after taking medic, they threw out again :~

prepared myself to the office, still having some jobs to clear before i left for cny holidays. but, looking at these 2 gals, tak sampai hati to do that. they were so weak n so lembik. changed my cloths, sms my supervisor, then prepared myself to be a good mother >.<

took my breakfast, felt not to waste my limited leave. decided to go to maybank to open saving accounts to bbb. oh, when i was telling the officer i wanted to open 3 children saving accounts, the officer said 'ini semua anak u ke? u umur berapa?' ok ok.. am going to be 30 this year, n i have 3 lovely children ^_^ reached the bank at 9:20am. left the maybank at nearly 12pm :~ so slow. n yet, dont know what's wrong with eva's account, it cant be created. the officer wanted me to let them log the case to headquarter, so, i am having royee and angel account books. dont know when only i can get eva's account done. n bcoz of they need at least rm250 in the account then only can give free coin box, so the next time when i go, must make sure i can get the free coinboxes for them :p

once reached home, i companied angel n eva in the room. i sang for them. many songs, n with all the funny n silly faces. they were too tired to smile. so sad to see them like this :( took some photos of them, just wanted them to move around n pose for me. they slept. then i quickly went to take a short nap also. was so sleepy n tired.

woke up at 3+pm. dont want to waste this leave, i went to Guardian pharmacy with royee to buy some children stuff. oh ya, promotion is running, the angpow bonanza, i got rm5 voucher when we purchase rm50. i got 3. n 3 booklets of product vouchers. and with my UOB credit card, i got 8% rebate on my total charged amount. sounds good. really got 'ah-soh got great deal' feeling :p another happy thing is, the supervisor asked 'is this your child?' 'yes' 'u look so young!' 'i have 3 children' 'oohh' kakakaka..

after getting all the 'soon-yer' :p we went to mcDonald for burger n nuggets. quite expansive, rm17.70. hmm spending much to gain more fat :( anyway, royee enjoyed this makan. so many questions he asked. when i was eating twister fries, royee non stop telling this 'eeeee mummy, these look like snakes...shhhh' hate this! i phobia to snakes :( i told him 'ok, pls stop this' he said 'mummy it's ok, when u eat these fries, all the snakes gone to your stomach, then no more snakes lo, u dont need to be scared one' :( i dont think these words can comfort me.. bad

evening. after 1 day 1 nite no food, milk, water taken, at least they can start drinking plain water. but i dondt allow them to drink lots. dont want them to throw out anymore, it is so suffered. temperature is still 38-39 degree celcius. playing some songs, let them sleep. n royee wanted to sleep too, it was only 8pm. felt weird. oh boy, his lips were in redish. he has lower fever! why la, cny coming then they are sick. get royee to take the fever syrup, then he slept.

eva

called up sis, to inform my cny plan. at 1st planed to stay in klang house more days. now, i need to stay at banting house, easy for me to take care bbb. will go to sgbuloh dc31 for reunion with in law family. hmmm wondering how's dc31, miss my 1st house. supposed to go johor in day 1, hmmm now since children are not feeling well, may talk to laogong on this. see how. i felt touched when laogong said 'i wanted to go back n visit my grandma, i have only 1 grandma left, n she is old, n she was taking care me when i was small' this made me think of the relationship between royee n my mummy ^_^

now i am blogging. about 1 mth i didnt use my laptop. still waiting for laogong to come back. he has full day meeting + cny dinner at KL. coming back now. hmm miss him pula :~ my cny wish, bbb are healthy. laogong is healthy n wealthy. laogong can stay with us everyday. n.. i really hope i am healthy, no sick, so i can take care bbb n putting more love in this family ^_^

oh, just now the bank officer said bbb names are unique 'macam korean bukan, macam china pun bukan, nak cakap mat salleh pun tak serupa' :p ya, i love my children name. coz these names are created by both me n laogong for our loving bbb :) in fact, i have english name for another boy n gal, wondering if these name can be registered one day :p

am tired in this 疯狂世界

我好想好想飞 逃离这个疯狂世界 那么多苦 那么多累 那么多莫名的泪水

我好想好想飞 逃离这个疯狂的世界 如果是你发现了我也别将我挽回

如果说了后悔 是不是一切就能倒退 回忆多么美 活着多么狼狈

为什么这个世界总要叫人尝伤悲 我不能了解也不想了解

'these weeks, am very tired, n negative'

nen nen vs susu

just now my mum called. she told me royee said 'susu is called by small children, nen nen is called by adult' my mum asked, 'who said this?' 'mummy' my mum called me to confirm if i told him this. of course i didnt tell him this. then i talked to royee, then he mentioned the same things again, then i explained 'susu is malay, nen nen is normally baby called, then milk is english' then royee said 'bu shi la! nen nen is big man called, susu is for baby' kakaka this is funny :p my mum said he sighed after talking to me >.<

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my mum told royee, next time, if eva bites anyone, then we will call policeman to bring him to police station. then royee very fast response, 'wai po, this wound is not bite by eva, eva didnt bite me, i fall down' 'why u fall down?' 'i fall down when i go out with papa' hehe to save his sister, he changed the story. in fact, the wound on his tight kena bite with eva, but to protect her sister, he tell lies! hmm.. good boy or dishonest boy har? hmm..

kuan laogong de qian :p

'I am telling truth
A man who can trust his wife har, n let her handle his money har, this man will success one.
Coz he always has his wife to back him up'

Sure la…as long as manage with wise la.. -Bonjji Thea

sounds like i am not wise hor! hmmm..

i am number 4

Anda adalah seorang yang amat degil dan rajin. Mungkin anda akan menjauhkan orang lain daripada anda kerana kata-kata anda. Anda seorang yang bertimbang rasa akan masalah orang lain. Anda berbakat dalam penyelidikan dan seni. Anda akan membantu ahli keluarga atau kawan-kawan yang menghadapi masalah tanpa berfikir panjang. Anda kena berhati-hati dengan orang sekeliling anda kerana mereka mungkin akan mempergunakan anda. Kawan-kawan anda akan menghabiskan masa dan wang ringgit anda dan selepas itu menjauhi daripada anda apabila anda dah tak ada nilai buat mereka lagi. Walau bagaimanapun anda tetap seorang yang sabar dan tegas. Pasangan ideal anda adalah no.1, 8.

well.. as what my kawan said 'proud to be number 4' but when i think deeper.. hmmm quite pity, 'ppl will spend all my time n money n run away from me when i have no value to them' why should i being bullied n being cheated for my love? treat ppl with sincere heart then ppl take advantage on this n bully me. ai.. this is life, n this is me. maybe, everything has been set.. destiny. what i need to do is, appreciate n treasure the very moment when the person or friend or the love one is being true to me. then it is enough.

ok, ideal partner? luckily hubby is number 1, n my sis n my papa too! royee also~ oh.. another special one is also number 1! ya, angels are number 8! hehehe.. ok ok.. this made me happy silly~ kekeke :p

sis's dream

没有昂贵的东西能天天给你～只能交换生活的点点滴滴～

还好你也是简单的脑筋～翻遍口袋只能掏出真心～

looked at the live feed in sis's blog 'japan arrived at sweetiemich. japan arrived at poohmehmeh' i hope, 1 day, both of me n sis, can write posts in our blogs, 'sweetie n pooh arrived in JAPAN!' or at least 'pooh n bruce arrived in Japan' would be super happy then! Japan, my sis's dream. my travel dream? United Kingdom~ only DIY travel for these 2 countries. work hard for them~~~ yo! yo!

ps: btw, who's the one from japan dropped by our blogs har? ^_^

sunday - toys day

left house about 11am. wanted to buy toys for bbb. before leaving the house, sis gave me a cup of yoyo ice. nice! feel touched ^_^ while eating in the car, royee asked me, 'mummy, this is ice cream right?' papa said 'this is yoyo ice' n continued enjoying the yoyo ice. out of sudden, i showed the cup to laogong, 'this is LOVE' . laogong looked at me. then i continued eating. ya, my sis bought it for me, coz i love it. i felt a cup of LOVE from my sis :)

didnt bring angels along, coz afraid of tere would be very crowded coz of cny shopping. n i planned for short shopping at toysrus only. after we reached subang parade, we went to toysrus, then parkson, then carrefour, dinner at asia cafe.. hmmm reached home at 8pm+ let angels playing the new mini blocks a while, then we went back to banting. i feel very guilty for the whole day :( i really hope bbb can grow up a bit more faster, so i can bring 3 of them out, n not making myself too tired.

ya, with seat belt!

recently he likes to pose this 'happy'

he loves lion dance~

while waiting for papa to park his car

at subang parade. he felt tired

looking at papa.. who is busy searching the nice belt :p

my boy!

while waiting for papa..

at last..

at carrefour. in the loooong queue

1st time eating ice cream in cone! need time to master this :p

pre-cny paktor

paktor day, ya, we hold hands, we kissed. much muaks :p more happy is, i bought SKII miracle water, 1 blouse, 1 dress ^_^ reached home, super tired! thanks laogong :)

dinner at Fish Market

cny menu

my laogong

plan to buy this

food served.. love the salmon

in the fitting room, love the smile in the mirrow

in the fitting room >.<

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hmmm.. :p

^_^

last evening.. left the office, walking towards the train station. hmmm was feeling blue. listening to christian songs.. suddenly, i looked up to the sky, the sky was nice, i felt windy n peaceful. i smiled. smiled to the sky. i really smile, like smiling to a person, i smiled to God up there ^_^ i felt released. i felt happy. then i continued walking happily n facing the world :)

n a SMILE for u when i saw u waiting me at the front of the train station ^_^

love sparkle

dating must hold hand ^_^

'yesterday was a bless' can really feel how happy my friend is :) when she showed me the new watch, hmmm before showing the new watch, her smile, shy, but yet full of happiness :) both of husband n wife take a day off, went for dating. exchanging gift. how nice it is.

as i asked u this morning, can u spend more time on me? n staying with me with the paktor feeling? can u treat me like treating a gf? u asked what's the difference? when we paktor, we love our gf/bf, only gf/bf is in this world. we afraid of losing our love one. we make up n dress up ourselves, just to let our love one have good impression to us, at least, we gonna spend more time n effort to let our partner to look us good.

husband n wife, then plus children. we can see how ugly or all the bad habit of our spouse, when we r get used to this relationship n daily living style, we r tend to forget to cheer our partner up, n to give them surprise n bring more happiness. maybe, we r too fast to jump in the marriage part, so we have missed the paktoring sweet moment. right now, just hoping we can bring the love sparkle in our relationship, and have the paktor feeling, plus the blessing 3 little love one - our shonejay angels ^_^

thanks for bringing lots of laughter last nite by letting children playing the little pony. they were so excited. ya, until royee threw out :( with your little time n effort, u can bring laughter to them. as long as u want, u can have us to smile in our hearts :)

laogong, thank u!

“It is not up to me to change my husband, that is up to God. My job is to keep him happy.” ~ Ruth Graham

Today, list five things you appreciate about your husband

zhugong, thanks for

1. choose me as your legal wife
2. your assurance of your love to me, n wont allow me to leave u no matter what
3. share your inner secrets to me that made me more understand u
4. allowing me having full access to your salary bank account
5. our shonejay angels :)

zhugong, I love being married to you ^_^

prayer
Father, so often we want people to appreciate us, but neglect to appreciate those closest to us. Help us to be the kind of wife You want us to be. Amen

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Thu 15/01/2009 15:52
I need to thank to you here actually..
Shameful with my changes inside my mind sometime…

Bonjji Thea

1 day

1 day, I may take bus from putrajya to banting.
1 day, I may just leave home for short vacation.
1 day, I may just leave u, without any notice.
1 day, I may just release myself, n fly towards to heaven. ^_^

chinese-english language translator

yesterday, junie said, 'wei, your blog has so many chinese wording, i donno what r u talking about'. ya, this is my concern now. sometime i feel to post in chinese, coz i can express my feeling with better description in chinese. hmm my english is poor ma :~ i told junie, i wanted to have chinese n english blogs, but i feel tired to maintain 2 blog sites. i had the idea to translate my chinese post to english, but then, i am not VIP, not many ppl are reading my blogs, doing this, ppl may laugh at me la :p hehe

anyway, i have set up my mind. maintain this blog for my daily feeling n stories around me. i have my yippieyaya.blogspot.com this would be my main blog site to connect to all my links n all my bbb small pic there! will try to translate my chinese posts with my broken english. i think, my readers would understand my broken english than those direct chinese-english language translator. i had tried that, hmmm i myself didnt understand the english translation :p

it might be only few frequent visitor come to @sweetie. i thank u all. willing to come n share my stories n feeling here ^_^

emergency contact

this morning in the train, talking about sense of secure, u asked me why from day 1 i never think to depend on u. i answered, last time i could look for my dad for any help, coz i could just simply tell, bcoz of my hubby is at oversea. right now, i cant, so i would like to thank u. 'thank me for what?' thank u for bringing me more closer to God. u indirectly has strengthen my relationship with my God :) coz, since i cant go to my dad so often for help, as my hubby is beside me. n i dont have confidence of sense of secure level that my hubby can be given to me. so, i can only seek advise n guidance from my God father. i told u that till now, my emergency contact is still my dad's number. u asked me why? 'coz my dad would never say dont want me' my tears dropped once i finished this sentense n my dad's face n love came all into my mind :~ u noticed that, even i pretended nothing had happened. then.. left eye contact len came out. u passed me tissue 'dont cry la' then very silly act, wearing contact len in the train, ya, peak hour. hmm somemore, it flip! huh.. so emotional today.