Friday!

good morning to you :) I am now very blur.. just woke up from my nap @_@



not easy to handle children and housework all alone @_@ most of the time I feel sleepy.. early morning have already lecturing my bbb >_< sometime feel to do my own things, but my eyes just can't open wide :(






this morning in the train, final run for the songs that I chosen for tonight cell group gathering.. 1st time I handle this session :)


singing alone can release stress :) especially those beautiful lyrics that touching hearts :)


am in the chicken rice shop for breakfast. porridge and butter kaya toast I ordered. to make sure my stomach being filled, coz I will have late lunch today. want to go shopping during lunch time, looking birthday present for my dad ^0^



just talking to my laogong over the phone. he is not in the town. yesterday when Junie and I talking about - friend, she said my laogong was my net friend. I said 'now my laogong is only my phone call friend' @_@

talking about friendship, I like what Junie said 'for me, a friend is someone whom u can confide with, need not be someone u see every day' :) quality gathering time is very important. the essence of friendship build only when both parties are communicating.



the above pic mentioned 'the most longest distance in the world is - when sitting together, but you are playing with your phone'. yes, this week I feel this. that day when I went out with my colleagues after a long break, thought of catching up with them, but after making order, then they started using phones till the meal came! seriously, last time the feeling was not strong when same things happen. maybe this time I expected so much from a friendship. while waiting for the food, I really feel not comfortable, I feel down.. then food came, we eat our own food then paid the bill and left. I have this thought - if we sit down is to eat the meal only, might as well we pack our own food and eat alone? :(

nowadays when you are in the restaurant of food court, you can see parents playing phones and children using iPad. then you don't see communication. this is quiet unhealthy. unless is an important call or message that need our attention, or else I would stop laogong from using phone when we are having meals. I told my children, if everyday you playing with computer and those computer games, without communicating with real person, one day, you gonna loose your ability to speak smoothly.



my sis sent me this yesterday. ya, I miss those happy moments too! that day my sis asked 'at what age we can leave your children and let them take care my their own?' I also don't know, last time I can stay at home alone when I was age of 7. but nowadays, parents still wiping faces for their children even they are age of 10! so I don't know when I can leave my children alone, coz they are too adventurous "_"



found this... cute!


yo! happy Friday!!

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good morning Thursday!


today am wearing 1 piece dress in blue. angel said I look like rapunzel.



only my hair is short. I don't know why she can relate me to rapunzel coz my dress length is at knee below, then I don't have good body shape as rapunzel ^0^ don't want to spoil angel's imagination, so I told her I would be rapunzel for the whole day :D



lately I don't blog :p coz most of the time I am either sleeping in the train or I play games :p I like Line's games, coz the animation is too cute! make me happy to see cute cartoon faces, destress moments :D

last evening, when I was at the train station, I saw a girl calling her friend then suddenly she said 'I saw you! I saw you!' so I saw 2 girls running from both ends to each other. then they hugged! this is so touching! friendship brings 2 hearts together! then we all of us got into the train, you can hear them both talking and sharing non stop. then they started snapping pictures, of course, in the packed couch, they can't get a nice picture of them. after few minutes, I really feel for them, coz to me, photos are very precious especially when you want to capture 'the moment'. busybody ah soh like me offered myself to snap them a pic with their phone. very sweet girls! when they saw the pic, 'aaaahhhh very nice! very nice! heheheh' see them so happy, I feel happy too!



this is the pic I snap with my very closed friends when we meet up in last sunday :D


friendship brings hearts together. no matter how far the distance is, hearts connected. true friendship needs no too much words, when we sit down after years, we can have the topic to talk on, the jokes to laugh on :)



hope we can meet up everyday, no matter if we are in the age of 40, 50... when we know each other at our lives beginning, wish we can continue our friendship till the end of our lives ^^ then we can see life transformation, then we can count the wrinkles and fine lines on each others faces :D



so how's life? myself is always busy with children and looking for longer sleep hours :(



sometime baby shyuan's innocent smiles and actions bring joy to me too! of course, I don't think my sis would feel this, coz she needs to wake up at night for baby's milk :p all working mothers are tired!



am looking forward for my travel trip ^^ what I can think of is, I can sleep in the hotel which I don't need to worry much about if my children are ok, if blanket is on their bodies or on the floor. sis would be relaxed too, coz she doesn't need to make milk for me in midnight ^0^



tata! want to take a quick nap before train reaching station. lately, office works are in control :)

Thursday!

this morning Eva lying on the bed and asked 'today is what day aaaahhhh?!' wonder why she got frustrated in the lovely morning @_@ angel answered 'today. is. Thursday.' challenges for the day normally starts once you wake up from your bed :~



happy Thursday to you! hope you have a energetic one :D above pic is baby shyuan ^^ cute girl she smiles most of the time :)

found the below pic in my phone. edited it to scare you off!


hahahhaa :D actually this was the pic I snapped when I tried on a long sleeves casual dress. wanted to ask my sis, ok to wear the chilli red dress and using red luggage bag for our coming travel trip? the answer was 'not ok, vintage feel 😒' something like this la.. many things if you are unsure you can check with my sis, coz she likes to comment - most of the time, very negative feedback with her laser words :p so when she praise you, then you must be very lucky! hehehe



found out one thing, there is no reason for my sis to diet and lose weight - not even for her wedding. however, when there is a travel trip, she is hardworking and committed with her workout! unbelievable right? when ppl go travel, most of the time we concern about the weather, where to stay, what to bring... but for my sis - 'so fat how to take pic!', what to wear, 'I want to eat xxx over there' :D that's why I suggested to her 'since you only diet for travel trip, then might as well you plan a trip for every 3 months, so you can maintain you BIG project' kakakaka :D



by the way, sis and I have done something 'quite big' confirmation without thinking further ^0^ like wedding la, you cannot think twice when a couple want to tight-a-knot, coz when you consider too much, the wedding tak jadi :p hehhe we have confirmed another travel trip! after booking, sis only found out 'har?! you don't have money de aaa? then why you hiong hiong ask me to book?!' kekeke, like wedding ma, when you think about the expenses, you scare to commit. but somehow, most of the time, at the end the wedding ceremony settled too :D



I told sis, maybe we shouldn't share this trip with my mummy 1st, coz she would ask 'who going to take care your baby?! aiyo.. wait till she big only you go travelling ma..' kekekke anyway, since I have blogged about this, my mama will know about this trip lo, coz she read our blogs too ^0^


above pic taken when royee lying on my lap and check the calendar. he wanted to have an outing. till now I haven't booked it, still waiting for my laogong schedule @_@

ok, lets pen off here. sis feedback my blog is long. wonder.. maybe English words are longer to tell a story, compare to Chinese words are lesser words to bring out a same story :p



tata! this year I gonna to travel more! :D

0608 22:51

tonight I end my night..



with this..



and this..


I Thank God for His love
I Thank God for His peace
I Thank God for His grace,
and for all the joys He brings
I Thank God for his strength
I Thank God for all his power
I Thank God for His truth,
His mercy sees me through
I Thank God for my life
I Thank God for my home
I Thank God for my friends,
and that I am not alone
I Thank God for this world
I Thank God for the sky
I Thank God for the stars,
in heaven above
I Thank God for His plan
I Thank God for His way
I Thank God for His hand,
that leads me through each day
I Thank God for my trust
I Thank God for my hope
I Thank God for my faith,
My heart for Him
He'll always be here
Here in my heart
I Thank God for His son,
for all He's done
He has a home
A place for me
In heaven above

stepping on the world

lately, I just feel to explore around the world. see how other nations living in their homelands. see how big the world is, see how small we all.

looking forward to coming travel trip. planning for school holiday outing. plan for the unplanned fly too. office work loads started burden me. but I am okay to work faster, harder to serve my end users better. ppl will say, wahh, you want a promotion ar? hmm not really, pay and benefits increment is always a bonus point, but to make myself looking forward to go to the office and do work willingly, self motivation and self esteem are much important.



recently just feeling not so right with the atmosphere in the office. most of the time, ppl do works just because force to do. I would like to see all members are working as a team with strong team spirit, so everyone helping each other willingly and meet department goal together. how to change this? hmm last night I non stop thinking about this. how good if I could change this situation. if I can't change the negative feelings of everyone, then, I may need to change myself - eg hopping to another opportunity? :p


well. work is work. yesterday when I was in the office wash room. a Malay colleague came in, 'ahhh michelle, I am so tired!'

me: kak, sama la. I am so tired too. in the office tired, go back home also tired.

kak: exactly! balik rumah we still need to do housework! sekejap kitchen, sekejap anak punya homework, put dirty cloths to the machine, take them out from the machine, sidai lagi..

me: ya!! after cleaning the dining table, go to the kitchen washing dishes. then come out see the living hall is dirty and messy, sweep and mop the floor somemore..

kak: husband like tak rasa apa apa, they macam ok je.

me: tell me about it. when I was washing in the kitchen 'why you not sleeping, it is too late, go to sleep la' pastu, who wants to do all these things? the next day wake up ants are everywhere!

kak: husband relax only. we busy and busy, when I about this close my eyes, ahh! forgot about kid's art class material! wake up lagi..

me: betul! about to fall asleep after hours of cleaning, forget the sports wear! and havent washed them!! so wake up and wash the sports wear and dry it in my room.

kak: ya la, like we are working from morning till late night. sleep for a while then continue again. so tired!!

me: ya!!! we all sama sama la. every morning saying the same thing 'fast! we are late!' on the way to the school, lecturing somemore 'why you don't check your bag last night..' reach the school 'faster! the gate is closing!!' 7am+ I feel exhausted dah! then rushing to the train station, and start to rush for work request..

kak: exactly the same la kita, penat!!

so, I guess this type of conversation happens everywhere to most of the working mothers. when we chatting about it, we release some frustration, coz we are in the same boat! after releasing stress, continue with the unfinished schedule :p I always tell my sis, one day you are a mother, forever you are a mother. the mother instinct to love, care and help your children is always there no matter how old are you. like my mama is still worry about us, come to our house weekly to helping on the housework, cooking for my children.. to make sure we are all in the good condition. my grandma is 70+ still worried about my uncle, grandma's youngest son 'why he hasn't reached home at this late night?'


nah, my forever headache :D



my sis's headache source :D



just hoping, we all raise good children. they make good deeds. they love each other and parents. they do good thing for the society and not hurting ppl. they love themselves, not hurting ownself. lately too many sickening and sad news about young children. just hoping, our children can make us proud.



tata! from a fatty chicken :p

28022013 special!

happy birthday to laogong! morning wake up I kissed laogong cheek and wished him '生日快乐' :) hope his dreams come true for many many dreams he everyday mumbling :p



today rule is - kiss papa before you take your pocket money from papa. Eva taken her money before this rule set up. so the story goes like this..

royee ran down from upstair..
royee: wahh, need to kiss papa only can take money ooo
Eva: so did you kiss papa?
royee: no la
Eva: then you have no money lo?
royee: hmm never mind, I have my saving. use saving money 1st lo
Eva: ohh luckily I have taken my money
...
angel: I haven't got my money
royee: you go up to collect the money you need to kiss papa 1st de lo..
angel: har?!
Eva: who ask you don't wake up early and prepare?
angel: so how har?
Eva: you share money with me lo..

from the above conversation, happy thing is my children won't sell kisses for money matters. sad thing is - why they don't want to get close with papa? @_@ the answer for this question can only find out by papa and change this feeling of children.



here comes my sis to help us snap family pic :) then sis suggested 'today is papa's birthday, everyone kisses papa!' within a sec, the group gone! children just moved away. laogong said 'you see, all gone le' sis said 'aiyo, I should snap a pic when all children move away' hmm don't know to laugh to this incident or get sad with bbb and laogong relationship hmmm..



listened to the news on a 19years old boy commit suicide after sharing his thought with his mum, I feel down about it. got the lesson from this incident, care about our children more, not only focus on their physical needs and academy result but their inner heart voice of pressure or any heart feeling of them. this morning I told bbb, no matter what's happening, mummy sure protect you and care about you. don't get pressured with issue that you can't handle, you can just share with mummy and we together can get through the unhappiness.


really hope all parents can spend more time with children. I hope my laogong can do so. I am trying to balance my work life and personal hours. children grow very fast, we can't turn the time backwards.




I got this today. I hope, I can get award in my children hearts too! :)

appreciate your wife

A husband complains for feeling tired... tired and tired.... and wants his wife help him on earning money by also working, because so far he thinks that his wife is 'not working'.

Following are Question and Answer between The Husband (H) and The Psychologist (P):

P : What do you for a living Mr. Bandy?
H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.

P : Your Wife ?
H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only.

P : Who make breakfast for your family in the morning?
H : My Wife, because she doesn't work.

P : At what time your wife wake up for making breakfast?
H : She wakes up at around 5a.m because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.

P : How do your kids go to school?
H : My wife take them to school, because she doesn't work.

P : After taking kids to school, what does she do?
H : She goes to the market, then go back home for cooking and laundry. You know, she doesn't work.

P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works.

P : What does your wife do then?
H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.

From the story above, who do you think work more???

The daily routines of your wives commence from early morning to late at night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!!

Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important!

Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are unaccountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all us to understand and appreciate each others roles. Understanding and Appreciating each other will make each person feel Happy.
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got this from fb. it is true indeed. laogong always mention this 'I already helped you do a lot of housework, I am tired!' well, housework is not mine, it is ours! I work and I feel tired too. if you think sending children to the school is too early in the morning, I feel the same too! hmmm.. to make myself feeling better and dont want to waste time in arguing who is tired who works more, I do housework quietly. do things fast then go to sleep fast before the next day comes..

husband and wife's relationship is not only 'you and me'. we have children, housework, house income and many many more. if we want to argue and look for justice in all sorts of these aspects, we are just wasting our lives. so, way to make myself feel better - train my children to take up some part of housework, and set goals together with them - now we have travel plan and eating ice cream plan :D

'if mama gets good bonus, mama will bring you all to travel. we go to the hotel which the swimming pool is in the room, so we can swim nakedly in the midnight too!' :D children are happy with this :p

I have a small cup in the kitchen. I always find money in their school uniforms. my bbb still not appreciating money much. to them, the pocket money is for their school foods and stationery only. so you do see some coins on the table and the floor. so I telling them 'when this cup is full, we will have nice ice cream together!' so now we can see children pick up money on the floor and fill up the cup :)

I feel blessed to have children be with me :) so when laogong is disappointing hehe I still have children be with me and enjoy the days with their sincere smiles :)



pic taken on chap goh meh


my big yummy shows prosperity :D


happy 27.02.2013!

day8 of cny

so how's your Chinese New Year celebration going on? visiting and travelling?


myself at home, hearing myself, my children, my laogong sneezing and coughing @_@ wonder when 1family can get healthy and go outing freely.

children sleeping most of the time. me too. great thing is, my period comes at the same time, weak become weaker @_@ I told bbb they were lucky coz they can eat medicine when they are sick. mummy is allergic to medicine, so let the soldiers in the body fighting!
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hmm.. this application seems not ok, my blog content keeps on being deleted. ok, good night. today I am going to meet up with my j13219 best friends ^0^

mid of feb

15.2 happy birthday to Arpu~ may you and family are always in the pink of health and ocean deep happiness ^0^

today is cny day6. today is Friday. I am so unwillingly to go to work @_@ body is aching, fever and flu is still on. headache but cannot take pain killer tablet :~ ride on my sis's car to work, coz I am always feeling sleepy..

what a cny break, when children started to get sick one by one from new year eve. few times visited the clinic. so, no one come to out house for visiting, my house food are still nicely placing on the rack :p



pic on new year eve.. see our spare tyres on the waist? feeling guilty too when children are losing weight and we gained weight :p



day one


this is now my phone locked screen pic.. see many legs like octopus ^0^



me and bbb. children cloths bought by my mama. my own dress don't know when I bought it. the price tag still on the dress, so I take it as new dress to wear on cny day1 :D


snapped at the shopping mall after movie with children.


day2. the new year cloths all bought by me, paid by laogong :p


one family of bkt31. 3 gals are wearing same design jumper. guess we will do this more often :p


this is the pic from my in law house. this is what old parents love to see. from 2 ppl family then expend to many many more children and grandchildren ^^ we have multiracial and multinational family members :)



gong xi fa Cai to everyone!


may this new year brings you good health and good wealth :D