recharge treat

guess I have not posted on this. sis and I have a relaxing retreat on 2nd day of 2013 ^^ after settling children at the school, the journey for ourselves begun..


Herbaline Kota Kemuning ^^


our full body massage appointment was at 11am.. it started with a welcome red dates tea


fish spa - the fish is quite big. most of the time, when sis and I soak our legs into the fish pond, more fish go to her.. so our guessing (or facts? :p) is - sis's legs are more smelly or her legs are full of dead skin kakaka :D



we love the environment at Herbaline. if you want a very relaxing treatment, I recommend you to go there for a try. the aroma, the music, the lighting of the environment.. with the soft with strength touch massage, woo, normally I snooze off de :p


hehehe.. you can go to my sis blog to see her mild naked pic too ^0^ of course, you won't describe us as 'hot and sexy' even we are full naked @_@


so this is the lunch we have at Juliet Kota Kemuning. sis likes this restaurant.



the wall deco in the restaurant is very nice too!


dessert. very tasty gula Melaka sago and durian cendol. sinful meal!


then we went to shop at aeon bukit tinggi. we supposed to have a movie, thinking it spent few hours in the cinema, so we changed plan. we didn't want to spend time but money!


sis surveyed for the treadmill. I wanted to buy but didn't plan for spending at this critical school opening time. long story cut it short, ended up I bought the treadmill too, coz of the zero interest credit card instalment plan. my sis pandai cakap, talk and talk, I said yes to buy without trying on the treadmill :p

I was sitting at the shop, trying their machine massage machine. sis asked lots of question, there was not many customers at that time, so sis non stop asking and asking questions like

'ini boleh kurus mana?'
'I nak kurus sini (pointing at the big bum and tight), buat ini ok tak?'
'Wahh! ini sangat cepat ooo'
'Wah.. macam ni sudah penat ooo'



many things she did. I only sitting there enjoying the full back and foot massage, at the same time, message my laogong on the purchase. then sis signed up for 2 treadmill, then we got a free hand massage machine each. even with the free gift, sis can spend minutes over there 'wahh ini bagus, boleh massage after exercise' women are more talkative when you have your baby :p my digo said de.



so this is our early dinner. we seldom go to this BBQ steamboat restaurant coz of the pork smell.


this time we went in, coz not many customers, the restaurant takde the smell. quite enjoying. pick up children after the meal. a half day outing, we spent few thousands! there is the reason, our husbands giving up on us >.<


well, the birthday of the cute baby shyuan's mother is around the corner. not easy to prepare her birthday presents. coz she is very choosy, bossy, cerewet... :p why is in my mind..

buy her a smaller size pretty dress or bikini, ask her to lose weight and perhaps can wear in one day? - tak sincere right? what is she tak jadi pakai? forever the present gonna be in the box ^0^

buy her a sporty suit, so she can wear it when she uses her treadmill? - hmm now with the cranky cari pasal baby, sis has no good mood to exercise too, run and stop coz baby crying.. so will she wear it?

full package - full body massage with machine + facial at Herbaline klang botanic? rm150-rm170 each. hmm... costly for 2 huh? wa boh lui..

so the best option is - birthday meal! after eating nice food then we workout more with our treadmill :D so if the answer from sis is 'aiya, I am on diet la.. ' good! then I sing a birthday song for you enough lo! 2 sisters boh kira de :p




ok that's all for today. sharing this pic - my sis got shock on her own weight :p

tata! waiting for my colleague to pick me up for a offsite meeting.

2101 Monday~

today we left home at 6.30am ^^ I reached the office before 8.30am. I hope every morning, we have hassle-free moments.. lately, my bbb are not easy to handle, they have their temper, opinion, ideas... and of course, most of the time, theirs are always conflicts with mine! then they start cold war, bang the room door.. sickening..



see them sleeping like angels~



but all children are the same in my house - 4 devil dolls!



even the small little shyuan also bully me and her mum! more to come!



I bought this from the small bible selling fair at the church. this is a children bible with stories, pictures, parents-children activities, prayers and lots more to help to build children characters. can guess how was my response when I heard the introduction of the book, ya, I need to build my children character before I got heart attack or I lose my voice because of scolding them @_@ this bible is the text book in some countries eg Hong Kong.

since laogong is away from home, nowadays wherever I go, I bring along bbb. dare not to leave them at home without supervision. children can do wonders! for sunday morning service at the church, I bring them along too.


normally Eva sticks with me. we go to the main sanctuary together. she draws or do some activity books. she sings hymns too!


i snapped this pic from the nain sanctuary. see the head? angel is at upstair. this girl is always want to do different stuff, everyone goes to the left, she definitely chooses right >_< so, when we are at level 2, she is at level 3 children worship group. royee sometimes stay with me, sometime he is not. but he is always go out to the washroom or he always be the 1st one goes to the hall to have the refreshment >.<

well, there are cases children missing, or some church members call me or SMS me 'your daughter angel is waiting at the entrance..' or 'your daughter is looking for you' well, one thing I must be happy is, bbb memorised my phone number. then they are brave enough to get stranger to call me when they are lost @_@

yesterday I heard this shocking story when i was choosing the bible 'aaahh are you the mother of this girl? last sunday a sister found her in the basement car park! luckily someone went to the car park at that time, this is so dangerous!' sweating I tell you! she supposed to be at level 3 worship room till the service done and I pick her up, why went out pula?! hmmm.. like all other children missing or children got hurt cases, if bad thing happened, I gonna be blamed as a irresponsible careless mother :~



day by day, slowly I have adapted to the new life at bkt31. every night I ask bbb 'any homework?' no.. 'any spelling or study you need mama to guide you?' no.. well, I don't know this is real no or lazy no. alternate day I check their bags. then you can see all sort of things eg few days socks, rubbish, soya beans bottles.. hmmm.. oh ya, homework with 'C'!



if you have read my sis's blog, u know my sis is on 60days challenge, 10kg or 20kg? well, one house we have 2 treadmill @_@ I been wanting to have treadmill at home for years. coz with children at home, not easy to go out jogging. now finally I got one ^0^ of course, laogong non stop scolding, complaining %]*$~^| hmmmm.. I remained calm, even though I was frustrated 'I don't spend your money ok? I want to do something for my health cannot ar?' I told laogong 'pls don't scold me now, scold me if I don't use the treadmill later on'



am not thinking to do this for losing weight or make it a project plan like my sis, I been tracking my weight for years! what I do is dont let my weight goes up to 90kg >.< if below, then I don't border. hehe sounds so tak bertanggungjawab to myself huh? :p I like the feeling of sweating the full body :)



just finished my 5km today with this book :) wanna take bath and good night!

last day..

what would you do if tomorrow would be your last day? I got this title this morning, ya, what would I think to do? in fact nothing special comes to my mind, continue my everyday, stay with family, do the daily routine as all these daily schedules, build up my life.

"所以，假使明天我生命即將結束，那麼，今天我會繼續過同樣的日子，完成我在世最後一天的責任與本分。
我會預備心，讓上帝來接我回家，並在天家等候我的家人一起團聚。"



平淡無奇，但是，
這卻是我衷心的期望。
因為，平淡無奇，
是何等的幸福與恩典。


^^

16012013 wed wed

halo~ ogenki desuka? :D



today I had a easy breakfast with doreen in the hectic schedule. so warm :D I truly appreciate the friendship we are having ^^ of course not because of the free meal la :p




out of sudden, I have this came across my mind - what if my children are having baby at the age of 16? I need to take care of my children or their children? @_@

"if you cannot educate your children, don't expect other people to do so" a very harsh statement my laogong has put for me. I cried when I read these and some other words about children raising issue. however, when the sad or pity-myself-moment is over, I rethink those words, ya, we shouldn't complain about children misbehave or not listening to us, when we are not putting our best effort and using right way to make them a better one. so, I will try myself to do to my level best, to let myself satisfy with my own children behaviour or attitude.


what's the story of the day? since everyday I have all sort of shocking or heart burning moments that given by my bbb :~

we enrolled bbb to a English speaking sponsored course that held in the school. today is the 1st class. the class is after the school hours. so during lunch time only I remember to call the driver auntie to pick bbb by only 3pm+ the auntie told me "no, the money you pay doesn't cover any additional paid class" in fact, we asked about this during the school orientation day, the answer was yes. but now, not the same answer.

I don't want to argue more coz I am now more worried about my children. coz I told them to have lunch after school, then only go to the English class. so, bbb won't wait at the gate as usual. I asked the driver auntie to make sure she went in the school canteen and looked for my bbb to send them to day care center. I worried my children don't know where to go or what to do and the driver auntie couldnt find them coz they are new in this school.

waiting and waiting.. I wonder if my children have been picked up. then I got a call from the driver auntie! "halo, can you talk to your daughter? she doesn't want to follow me back.." then I heard children voices and angel crying?

mummy: hello angel? angel are you there?
angel: hello..
mummy: angel, you follow auntie go back to the centre ok?
angel: no, I need to go to the class
mummy: angel, we can't make it to the class, coz the auntie doesn't pick up children at 3pm. you ask gogo and meimei all get in to the car
angel: (crying) this morning mummy said got class, now afternoon say no class! are you my mummy?!
mummy: (wahhh! big issue nie!) angel, I am mummy, when we settle the transporter issue then only we go to the class ok? now you must follow the driver auntie go back to the centre, or else no one will pick you up at 3pm.

this is the great part..

angel: no! MY MUMMY asked me to go to the English class after taking lunch! wawawa :~

then no one taking to mummy anymore.. @_@ call back, the auntie not answering.. after few calls, the auntie answered "ok ok, now all has got into the car, I will send them to the centre"




sometime you just don't know, when, the ordinary cab turn to the extraordinary day in a second..




life is full of surprises!



enjoy the days, experience the experiences..



and.. good night and have a nice dream zZzZz...

mid jan

good morning ^^ less than a month we going to celebrate Chinese New Year. no cny mood yet, this Friday I may go to petaling street with my colleague to buy some red cny deco for the office. hmm.. I may try to avoid snake graphic @_@



today breakfast - organic grains burger bun + fried egg with olive oil + fresh green :) and half of big Fuji apple. one set for myself then 1 set for my sis. hope we can stay healthy everyday ^_^ children drink the Dutch Lady low fat milk.

yesterday I cooked meatball + Chinese cabbage soup and sausages. supposed to be sweet and sour mixed vege sausage, can't find the tomato sauce. today, may cook celery + tofu soup and baked bean + fried eggs. dinner is simple, but homecook meal is always warm to eat :) even the white rice smells nicer ^0^



2 weeks staying with bbb day and night. everything seems news and challenging. hmmm really challenging. not only the daily housework, the everyday top news is shocking too @_@



sis said, your children are 7 years old, you have parenting problems still acceptable. my baby is yet to be 7mth, and she has given me headache! hahahha :D maybe you all always looking at this cutie baby you thought her was a cutie angel... she is a naughty bum bum who made her mother gone jealous, gone mad ^0^ too cheeky laa..



talking about my bbb. don't know where to start sharing their stories.. too many things that made me tired, shock, puzzled, helpless :~ very soon I gonna receive warning letter from the school for reaching school late. not only 1 letter, but 3!

lets share some morning stories..

don't want to wake up
wake up but don't want to get ready to school
ready to school but must be some books missing
siblings chatting happily without putting the socks and shoes on

when we are leaving the house 'mummy, I haven't wear panty!'
'mummy, I can't find my xxx teacher said must bring de!!!'
'mummy~ gogo bully me again!'
'mummy, I lost my pocket money!!'
'mummy, we haven't got out pocket money'
'mummy! I go to toilet 1st, can't hold anymore!!!'

all the above, normally happen at the dot you want to lock the door or even we are in the car! rushing to the school everyday. then there must be a lecturing session in the car. once they get down from the car, is either the gate is closing or the gate is closed! they walk to the guard house, putting down their names (so mummy can receive love letters from the school)..

stopping at the traffic light and feeling blank, normally a prayer made coz I really don't know when this rush hours be ended.. looking at the roadside stalls which selling yummy Chinese foods, everyday I tell myself 'one day I must try to taste them' so far, no chance yet. coz from the school, I rushing to the train station to catch the train...



playing the minuet, not only learn this so that I can practise with royee for the coming exam, I try to release some stress from the playing too. every night, I fall asleep coz I can't get my eyes open wide. yet still, I put hope on the next brand new day :)


I know I have not done enough. not wake up early enough. not prepare myself and children enough for this staying together. so putting effort to get everything settle down soon..



teacher asked, why children nowadays cannot sit still? not like last time when we were small, we jumped or ran only during games, won't be like hyperactive like my bbb now. think positively, children playing freely and smile wide, coz they feel secured with the environment and parents companion. so, let go and let them play.. (since I tak larat to non stop ask them to behave :~)



happy Tuesday!!

Friday!

good morning! ^0^ can't wait for the weekend. I want to sleep, I want to sew! day by day pass so pass, seems like once I open my eyes, I go in the bathroom then do ironing, then rushing to the school and the office... then meeting and meeting.. then standing in the train, reach home, 'any homework?' 'how's school?' 'pray and sleep' doing housework in my office wear, take bath then close my eyes.. then another day comes with the same routine @_@



morning 7am in the car..


photo being edited, or else you cant see their faces :p



normally bbb are sitting at the back at their appointed seat. now i get Eva to sit in front, coz we are always late to the school! so when we reach the office, it is either the auto-gate is closing.. or is about to close :~ so bbb need to get down the car fast with their super heavy bags! Eva always get down late, then she kelam kabut wanna to cry.. so, let her sit in front, at least I can help her to pull her bag.



not easy to take care 3 schooling children at bbb age. they are not tall enough to switch on the water heater for showering. so I need to run up to the room to switch on the heater, then run down to the kitchen again.. now I have a basket to put their panties and handkerchief, a place to keep their towel, and a drawer for their socks. at least, you won't hear this 'mummy, I don't wear panty..' 'mummy, I can't find clean socks!' or standing nakedly outside the bathroom and sneezing @_@



way to go till they can get themselves get ready to the school without my help. my colleague told me, sometime he not even know his children have gone out to the school. of course, he got a maid helper at home, and the children are in secondary school. i envy the scene. although I enjoy what I am doing now :p



today I have a seat in the train, so now I am blogging with easy mood. yesterday, I was standing for an hour with mid-high heel. standing at the doorstop coz the coach was packed! once reach te station, I felt so tired. but still, I climbed up the 45 staircases and got myself out from the station and walked for 10min to my office. once reached my workstation, my backpain, my legs sore... @_@ before starting work, already got heavy workout.

sis asked me, have you adapted to the days in bkt31? ya, I am ok at the home, the route to the school and the office, the hectic routine.. but one thing is, I am lacking on rest time, my body is tired.. but then, so far, my weight is still maintain :~ no bonus I got from the tiring routine. Ai seh...



happy Friday!

10012013 love~

am in the train, heading home happily ^0^ just received call from my mama, tonight she again overnight at our house, the best thing is, she cooks curry chicken for dinner tonight!

blessed to have loving parents who really care about the family and children. I am going to be 34, but still my mum is taking care and worry about me. when I work late, she calls. when I move out from the family house and stay with my bbb, she comes and said 'I come your house to be free maid' I feel so guilty @_@ at the same time, I feel so warm and thankful for the helping hands and yummy foods!



I am greedy, I want my papa and mama to be the best of their health, so they can stay longer, so I can continue to feel their warmth of bonding love! my mum didn't sleep last night, she did housework and cook breakfast for us. I felt so embarrass for this :~ wanted to spend time to chat with her, less than 10min, I just can't make my eyes open wide.. with guilty heart, I went up to my room and sleep..



this morning, again I seen this pic. the precious moments, the touch, the heart warming catch.. a simple pic that brings lots of love and hope. parent love - always hold the children with care..


I was tired. after I sent pic to laogong, I clean the room and slept. this morning when I saw the reply, my feeling was mixed. not easy for a parent to stay away from their children. you work hard away from home, I guess, family love is the only thing can really keep you moving.



when I said - papa wants a pic of you.. they pose like this..


can you pls show your happy face?


.. start pushing and arguing >_<


'I just want a pic to show your faces, can you be cooperative?'


hmmm.. not easy to handle my children now :( lately, I am always at my peak of voice tone @_@



guess, my sis can't control her temper too when come to handle 3 big and 1 small babies :~



this devil doll is not easy to handle! too cheeky..



inner peace.. ya.. I need that, and of course, I need quality sleep please!!!