the final off day!

huuuhhhh~ am sweating! I ran from the car park lot to the train station, then again speeding to climb up to and go down from the staircases, slip in the train before the train's doors closed @_@ good morning exercise then >.< that's why I prefer to wear very simple and comfortable mostly 1 piece dress and easy running sandals to get myself prepared for the last sec squeeze in the train ^0^
why am late? coz when I wanna leave the house, then I recalled I got a bag of washed cloths in the washing machine. to leave out the cloths in the sun, I spent a little more time..




I can get angels gal gal to help out during weekend. 3 of us together doing is very fast. 'tup tup tup tup' then settled. for the shoes on the floor too. bbb can really help out in doing housework, I hope this continues to many many years so together manage the house GOOD!
last sunday, I talked and joked around with bbb at the dining hall when they took the lunch. basically I shared with them our 2013 daily schedule. from morning what time wake up, how we go to the school, what they shall do in the day care centre after school, then night time time table...
so, the main purpose is this.. 'in order for us to manage our time well, and get everything done and followed our schedule, we need to organise our things. there must be 'houses' for your school bags, weekend classes bags, books and stationery. so you won't go up and down in the house just to look for the missing books'
then here come mummy's devil trap.. 'we have only 3 months left to get everything done, so if you count only weekend, we have no enough time for all these preparations for us to stay together. 1st of all, what I see is your messy wardrobe! how nice if you can organise your wardrobe nicely, then we label each of the drawer eg pyjamas, shorts, panties.. then you can get what you want immediately. in fact, TODAY we can do it!' ^0^
'you know, we always see papa talk loudly (bbb always complain @_@), sometime scold us too! all these rude habit is not good to learn, and we need to remind papa to take softly and politely. BUT! guess what? papa has a very good habit we need to learn from him! (bbb asked 'what's that?' so suspend :p) papa set up his wardrobe very neat! slot for pants, shirts, sports wear, towel.. you all can pay a visit! mama also needs to learn from papa too!'




then we got this scene. Eva is in action of keeping the wardrobe neatly. royee was in his room too, busy with the wardrobe and playing the toys as well :p




this is what angel doing when gogo and mei mei were busy. angel washed her hair and bathe for hours! get in and out from the bath room and talked to eva nakedly >_<




at last she came out, smell like a 'crappy' scented candle @_@ wear nicely and read book at the 2nd floor staircases..




busy with her wet hair..




free garu garu sexy pose for you ^0^ really beh tahan this girl




came to talk to me..




'I am a doing_nothing girl and day dreaming in this world everyday' >.<




this pic taken before they gone for swimming. suddenly bbb came in the room 'mummy, just now you told us about papa's wardrobe, we now come to see it' I got surprised too, coz this happened after 3-4 hours from my 'Inspiring and motivating' talk.
so inspiring right? papa has a good thing so everyone can learn. this is definitely a very good parenting tip - children see children do, learn by example ^^ laogong does housework everyday. royee now starts doing housework without instruction given. that day when we went back to my mama's house, royee saw the messy room, he went and clean it. of course, he does housework with the mumbling mouth.. non stop complaining this and that 'you see, the bowl how come in the room?' 'you see the books? nice nice one then go and tear it?' shake head and continue doing. LEARN from papa ma.. papa also make a lot of noise when doing house chores >_<




no matter what, I still can't wait to have all bbb staying together soonest possible! much better, if there is any maid helper to help out in the non stop housework for 8 ppl at home :p
good day!




my bbb chopsticks ^^ cute!

oh, by the way, today is the last day of my sis maternity leave :D we will have dinner together with royee as well, coz next week onwards, I will stay with angels in work days ^^

2409 Monday blue~

me: leave me alone @_@

feel to blog, but the train coach is too stuffy and warm! no aircond and I am standing and sweating >_<

30min to go! eeeerrrhhh!!




am on fire now!

ps:
if you want to see why my sis's back is on fire, you may go to her blog @
http://poohmehmeh28.blogspot.com/2012/09/blog-post_24.html




ta!

attitude

in a beautiful peaceful place, there must be ppl who non stop bringing positive energy to everyone, and there is also ppl who like to create conflicts to make ppl feeling not good. then we can ensure the eco-balanced.

this week, I got few bullets shoot in the office. I dont get hurt deeply coz I have been matured. this week, I learnt how to handle ppl, I can practice anger and people management. when ppl talk louder, we don't need to raise our voice to burden our throat. as long as our justification and tone is firm, then smart ppl know who is right and who is pretending to be right.




I like today office work ending with this conversation..

boss: michelle, you are good. ppl do many things to you, you still playing and smiling around.. you have very good attitude. never mind, the GOD is GREAT.. remember this, the God is Great.

ya, what for I want to dislike ppl who dislike me? I just need to be myself. ya, of course, I will be protective, so I can avoid you hurt me many many more times. but I wont hate you. coz, whoever wants to revenge or making ppl life difficult, the person would somehow more suffered by own negative spirit.



so, I can't force ppl to see the blue sky, if they choose not to face the sunny bright. my world is broad, coz I see and smile to the borderless sky everyday :D



sweetness and colours can always add on to the black and white dullness :) rich is the soul can make us go farer ^^

happy weekend!!



thinking to concur this handmade blanket :p dream BIG!

2109 special mm day!

yo! today is FLY-day!! came early to the train station, but missed the earlier train. good too! I can sitting and browsing fb and blogging ^^


today is mei mei's bday!! age of 33 with all the warm happiness of family, self achievement, bundle of joys~ may all your dreams come true and always in the pink of health ^0^

祝福你，深深的 :)



the uncle put a smile on my face and place a question mark in my head. for Chinese, how to differentiate the marital status from outlook? compare to Indian, the black dot means single, red dot is married. right? hope I don't get mistaken. coz I remember it this way 'red light is STOP! so guy should stop dating the girl coz she is married' :D



comment from the above status post :p don't worry, I am too heavy to fly high :p the work load in the office, always brings me back to the reality. just hoping today boss won't bring me along for the meeting at headquarter, coz I wear very casual today >.<



funny right? I always show you my legs lately kekeke.. snap the pic in the train with many passengers, I cant do it too obvious :p

today to finish the restaurant menu, send them back to banting, so tomorrow we will use the new menu :) this weekend I will be on standby for the system integration problem solving, hopefully they don't call me, weekend suppose to be rest days and no office related work allowed :p

this weekend sis, bruce, baby shyuan and I will visit the baby's baby sitter to send shyuan's stuff and to communicate to the nanny about shyuan's habit. ya, sis will be back to work next week, very fast huh? 2 months just gone like this, and I wonder is sis can recall what she has done in these 60days - baby crying, feeding time, singing lullaby, massaging baby's tummy, the room full with all sorts good and not so pleasant smell? ^0^



how true :) find a way that suits to the mother and the baby then, that would be the perfect way!



..and definitely not in this way @_@ the devil mummy is always bully the cutie baby..



smart baby, now she knows how to say NO silently. sometime she just ignored the crazy mummy ^0^

let's pen off here. here is a bit noisy in the train. can't concentrate. sometime, the basic courtesy as a passenger in the public transport is important to allow everyone respect each other. now in this tran coach, a group of ppl watching movie clip together with speaker loud on. then another side playing mp3 openly without ear plug. your favourite songs don't mean we like them too! then the train is playing some advertisements on the left, and Tom and jerry animation on the right.. @_@

2109 special mm day!

yo! today is FLY-day!! came early to the train station, but missed the earlier train. good too! I can sitting and browsing fb and blogging ^^


today is mei mei's bday!! age of 33 with all the warm happiness of family, self achievement, bundle of joys~ may all your dreams come true and always in the pink of health ^0^

祝福你，深深的 :)



the uncle put a smile on my face and place a question mark in my head. for Chinese, how to differentiate the marital status from outlook? compare to Indian, the black dot means single, red dot is married. right? hope I don't get mistaken. coz I remember it this way 'red light is STOP! so guy should stop dating the girl coz she is married' :D



comment from the above status post :p don't worry, I am too heavy to fly high :p the work load in the office, always brings me back to the reality. just hoping today boss won't bring me along for the meeting at headquarter, coz I wear very casual today >.<



funny right? I always show you my legs lately kekeke.. snap the pic in the train with many passengers, I cant do it too obvious :p

today to finish the restaurant menu, send them back to banting, so tomorrow we will use the new menu :) this weekend I will be on standby for the system integration problem solving, hopefully they don't call me, weekend suppose to be rest days and no office related work allowed :p

this weekend sis, bruce, baby shyuan and I will visit the baby's baby sitter to send shyuan's stuff and to communicate to the nanny about shyuan's habit. ya, sis will be back to work next week, very fast huh? 2 months just gone like this, and I wonder is sis can recall what she has done in these 60days - baby crying, feeding time, singing lullaby, massaging baby's tummy, the room full with all sorts good and not so pleasant smell? ^0^



how true :) find a way that suits to the mother and the baby then, that would be the perfect way!



..and definitely not in this way @_@ the devil mummy is always bully the cutie baby..



smart baby, now she knows how to say NO silently. sometime she just ignored the crazy mummy ^0^

let's pen off here. here is a bit noisy in the train. can't concentrate. sometime, the basic courtesy as a passenger in the public transport is important to allow everyone respect each other. now in this tran coach, a group of ppl watching movie clip together with speaker loud on. then another side playing mp3 openly without ear plug. your favourite songs don't mean we like them too! then the train is playing some advertisements on the left, and Tom and jerry animation on the right.. @_@



happy Friday!

2009 flora Thursday

good morning~


breakfast from laogong :*

wonder if you all drink milo with condensed milk like last time our parents usually did? for very long time, my house doesn't have condensed milk in the fridge. so we always drink pure milo only. my children too coz they don't know milo to drink with condensed milk :p when I was small, coz I don't drink milk powder after age1. so my mama always give me barley with condensed milk. manis oooo.. but it works to raise a fatty and healthy baby :D



today am wearing flowers - bag got flower design, dress too, and the shoes with ring flowers :p today mission is to clear many many pending works. then final touch up on my digo's restaurant new menu. more new dishes added in, all yummy yummy ooo~



the pressure is there when the business hours extended to cater for dinner time. variety of choices to attract customers to come often.



to earn more so these 2 ppl can have better treat :p my ersao getting slimmer, then baby song song getting cutie fatter and taller :D



these 2 are now suffering @_@ coz my sis always 'playing' baby shyuan when sis is free and got nothing to do. then when my sis is tired and sleepy, is time for shyuan to bully the mummy, make noise for everything :D



shyuan xin en at almost 2 months. started to ee ee oo oo already.

ok, just pen off here. I want to check groupon, see if I can get some special class for bbb at competitive prices. hehe smart mummy :p



Bbbb done this from a clay class. very cute ooo


the bottles are cute! my bbb are sweet and cute! :D look at angel, she is the one with all sort of accessories on her body - hair band, sling bag, vest macam macam ada. her mix and match idea can go wild!



my Bbbb = my happiness ^^


^__^

1909 sharing ^^

hehe^^ very tired everyday, can snooze off at anytime, anywhere. luckily today I am in ladies coach, so women should understand how a working mother gone through, go to the office with tiredness, snoring in the train, reach th station and continue working smart in the office.




what I am on this week? UAT for the integration system that my office is now working on. the whole week from 9.30am to 9pm @_@ but u left early, as i need to pick up my royee boy from the child care centre. final week for me to stay with him. sister going back to work by next week, so fast, 2 months maternity leaves have just gone like that.


dinner with the boy ^^


art work doing for royee's homework :) I like to see laogong's smile ^^

"😊 today morning officemate brought nice kuih from indon, made me think of you ☀ nice day!"



^^

recharged

我只想唱这一首老情歌，
让回忆拥满心头。
当时光飞逝，已不知秋冬，
这是我唯一的线索。
人说情歌总是老的好，
走遍天涯海角忘不了。
我说情人却是老的好，
曾经苍海桑田分不了。
我只想唱这一首老情歌，
愿歌声飞到你左右。
虽然你不能和我长相守，
但求你永远在心中。
我只想唱这一首老情歌，
让往事回汤在四周。
啊，事到如今已无所可求，
这是我仅有的寄托。



tonight, my heart got comforted **

confused

suddenly, I have the feeling of directionless.. in the office and in my marriage..


in the office, everything seems alright, I work hard, I got recognition, then boss trusted me, then putting more responsibility on my shoulder. I welcome new challenge, I am so much into learning new experience and knowledge. but, would this make my other officemate not comfortable with me? i am now in the middle, to take or not to take, to fight in the workload war with full passion and spirit or to slow down? before I entering a people relationship war. hmmm... I am not here to compete with others, I just want to challenge my yesterday me.



I always have the thought, I would leave the role when everyone likes me. I don't like to leave a place, because people or the environment dislike me. find way to balancing this feeling imbalance.

talking about my marriage. everything seems so right. a living of husband and wife with 3 lovely children. when things gone routine, day in day out has become habit and ordinary, then passion missing. passion of creating sparkle in love relationship, passion of bringing children more excitement and new experience. the level of caring and understanding to other person has reduced. assumption of one's feeling always occur as we think we know the person well. so, when assumption gone high, talking lesser, clarification lesser, communication seems not important anymore. when the serious talking take over, then the feeling seems so tense and voice tone getting higher. then heart become more emptier after the not feeling good communication.




am I requesting too much? or the need of love is too demanding? too sensitive? as I shared with my sister, she said 'aiya, we also like that la..' or many other couples gone though this when years in marriage increased? sometime I just feel like, woman take care of household, make sure children need have well taken, to give a not so pressure and noisy environment for husband to rest at home after a day of tiring office work. when come to late night, putting on the blankets for children, switch off the light when husband is snoring.. then we are either smile in happiness or feeling lonely when thinking of, I take care everything well, I put in my family schedule in my schedule, but, is there anyone understand what I want? is there anyone care to ask 'how are you?' sincerely. or this is normal to all the mummy out there? or this is why people always say, mother is so great. mother takes care everything by putting herself aside. hmm just wonder..



well, as I always believe good attitude towards life, can bring us to higher level of satisfaction and success. so continue to be me, continue to do what I feel good. maybe I will get my deserved rewards at the end of the journey :)






good day!