In 35

A new beginning to my age, to my career in this lovely April. Am having confidence to move forward for a better day :) as I told children this morning, even mummy is now 35 years old, mummy keeps learning and opt for higher ground. Why we always saying '求知识 to seek for knowledge' instead of receiving knowledge, coz we need to have the passion and hunger for knowledge, we need to go for 'seek and found' approach, so we learn and grow. Be someone who is with knowledge and wisdom and don't be a dumb who doing thing just because of the sake of doing or by instruction.



Nah, this is someone who wanted to be more knowledgable and wisdom :P


Age 35. Pic snapped few hours before my birthday @kuching ^^



As sis said I was going towards 40 which sounded so old! I don't know how long I would keep at this 'cute and young' sweetie look ^0^



No matter what, I hope I have someone to stay with me till old age. Life long partner :)

A quiet birthday I got for this year. Wishes from friends and families you touched heart. Since last year I have set invisible for my Facebook birth date reminder. So who know my birthday they know la. Some changes in the office has made me feel uncertainty. Somehow this has disturbed my celebration mood. Last night I went out with sis for birthday celebration, so many suggested restaurants, ended up we just had a casual dinner at Pizza Hut :) well, no pic taken, coz this is so casual :p

After the meal, sis left with baby shyuan, as shyuan was having very smelly poo :~ alone I walked in the hypermarket, buying some stationeries and socks for bbb. The hypermarket was quiet, along walking in this big spaces, sudden thought came across my mind - when was the last time I walked alone in the mall casually? No time rushing, no children, no sister, don't have must-buy shopping list.



Or very soon, I will have leisure time like this as children grow older. Or I will have this lonely moments when children have their own schedule? Suddenly I feel the need of children companion, before I entering the age which children will once a while calling me and update their schedule. Entering 40, how's the life gonna be?



Hope I have an enriched heart till then ^^


青草地，溪水旁
黄昏时有主与我同行，
黑暗夜，路崎岖，
一步一步随主行。

This hymn is playing while I typing this post. Green field ground, riverside, The Lord is walking with me during sunset. In the dark, in the rugged route, step by step walking followed Lord.

Let's start the matured age with flowery scent ^^


Got this for myself ^^ I ordered this on the 1st launch of loccitane online purchase promotion. Got the this delivered with free personalised message and nicely wrapped box. what I am showing here are actually free gift from the main items I bought. Guess I need to do this 'thick skin' action till the age, my children will buy me birthday present every year :p

Yesterday my colleagues asked me how I celebrated my birthday, what my laogong has given to me..






Hehe a family we flew to Kuching for 4D3N trip. On birthday, we were wearing smart ^0^


I got a tea egg :)..


..And pudding cake from my laogong. Which ended up I managed to got 2 spoonful of the cake pieces :p children were too fast after they singing birthday song for me :D btw, I got bad water retention on that day, face big big :~


This is another cake for my birthday celebration at Kuching international airport - kuih lapis famous in Sarawak. We finished it off too in a flash! Eva snapped the pic.


Children suapkan.


On 13apr2014 @kuching international airport ^^

Listening to amazing grace now :)
Happy 35!

1304 sunday

Good morning to my 35th birthday!





Morning scene :) blessing to have family together in everyday new morning ^^



Leaving kuching today. Laogong promised children to have a 4 days travel trip every year - as long as the air flight is having promotion :p

1:22

Staying awake at this moment


Suddenly think of.. If children need identification document for domestic flight check in..


Came to this page. Birth cert needed. Look for the cert for bbb. Found laogong handsome pic in his international driving license. the valentine message I sent together with the chocolate delivery. My body medical check report. My secondary school report card. Lots more of award and participation certificate for family members :) Midnight treasure hunting^^

Regretting now for drinking the teh-c ice at 10pm @_@ another 2 hours then I need to start the family trip journey. Hmm..

Frust

Tomorrow is the travelling date, at last I made the hotel room booking after many days of studying and travel sites hopping.

Well, reward normally won't be giving to people who is not prepared or putting in hard work. So, I have wrongly chosen the arrival date of my hotel booking.






To comfort myself, I have only booked the room for 1st night as per laogong advice. Luckily, I didn't go for 5stars hotel @_@



Let's wait for the reply. Hopefully I can get the booking changed without additional cost incurred.



Start my today morning with heavy breakfast. Easy to get super hungry these few days. Getting older, many not comfortable symptoms happened when period is about to come. Fatigue, blur, hungry, body water retention, lower back pain..



Got this from the post box this morning. Ya, soon to be in matured age @_@


Normally, all these birthday wishes coming much earlier than actual bday, and more than closed loved one :p


Well, don't spoil the good mood of mummy and bbb, hope I get good reply from the hotel to close my morning mistake made. Can't wait for the traveling trip, which, no hotel rooms and schedule and places planned yet hahaha :D

Happy Wednesday!

Aids

Last week angel asked us to various type of drugs. Today, Eva talked about how a group of people taking drugs and sharing the needle.

Then bbb talking about aids. Something mummy never think of and be prepared of.

So mummy talked about how aids transmit from one person to another. How a pregnant mother can transmit the HIV virus to the baby.

Royee: how can we prevent aids?


Thou shalt not commit adultery. (Exodus 20:14)

This came across my mind immediately as we talked about 10 commandment in Sunday school class last Sunday.

Then I explained to children, how 1 HIV+ person transmit to his or her partner and how the chain route from 1 to 10, 10 to 100, and 100 to many many more.

Royee: if a wife don't have many partners, but how she prevents to get aids from her husband.

Hmm.. Detailed sex activity is not yet a open topic in my sex education syllabus @_@ I don't think this is the right time to share on condom usage for healthy sex.

The answer for royee 2nd question, 'no, once your husband got it, if you have sexual relationship with him, then you will get it. So make sure you and your partner is having healthy lifestyle'

Hook up to google, basically I am doing good in explaining the overall topic for aids. Just hoping I can be more prepared for those unexpected question from kids in the future.

0304 Thursday

Opps!


Terbalik dah!









What a day start. You can imagine how I started my morning with my children. No water supply at home, take bath in my bath room with not so clean water, then brush my teeth in the kitchen with cleaner water. Children take bath in angels room. Looking for royee's sport wear which we couldn't find it last night and day before. Morning sewing for the big hole on royee's uniform pant.



Pack some nice pastry yesterday from the office. This morning rushing to heat up few pieces so children can taste Nutella chocolate spread as I promised day before. A kelam kabut start of the day with my cloth in reversed state, understandable @_@



Malu la! Laogong said 'how come you do this to yourself' well, shall I reply 'I just wanted an extraordinary start of my day!' ^0^

Today children are wearing yesterday unwashed uniforms to the school. The house water tanks been empty. How long this gonna be? The washroom is smelly. Inconvenient in the kitchen washing. Hmmm. Plan to bring children school uniforms and shoes back to my mum's house for a good washing.



Attending 3-days program management training session. Insight thought I got from the 1st day.







Pen off here. Another station away the I shall rush in the rest room and get my shirt reversed :p can't wait for it, this situation made me uneasy.

Sharing this pieces, which inspiring me this morning :)

Foolish April!

Good morning to a brand new month!


Today is 12th anniversary of me working in the same company. Time flies huh. My current supervisor was the colleague of the department when I 1st joined in this company. Still remembering him teasing me 'Wah she is so CUTE la hahahhaa :D' till today, I am still keeping my size :p and he continues teasing me once a while on my body size :~



Workload has been getting more and more lately. Downsizing of organisation chart, somehow the impact is there. Positively, we have more opportunities to explore the new era in career. Pushing our capability limit to move us extra mile. Like the challenges, but sometime am feeling stress with the demand.

Wonder I would be working till my old age in the same company. From very young girl till now, young lady :p from a no-stress single to a matured mother of 3. New friends joining, old friends leaving. Do hope i can keep the passion till my retiring age in the corporate world ^^



Last week we were back to taiping, my dad in law's hometown. 1 big family to meet the bigger family :) the feeling is great, but the road journey and hot weather is somehow tiring.


Like to see children in the green.


We have tomato, banana, lime, jackfruits..


Papaya and lots more flowers, vegetables and fruits!



Children playing with stones and sands. I didn't stop them, as this was how childhood suppose to be! We don't have the chance to do this often in the city.



The drawing board in the nature :)


While walking, I spotted this ^^


You would wonder why these 2 people enjoying the big hot sun ><


These the photos when I was trying the cheer up my baby nephew when his mother was followed the group for Qing Ming prayer. Well, after an hour +, the power of rooster and village dogs, cute songs in the iPhone are no longer can kill the boy lost feeling, he cried for nearly an hour before I put him on sleep @_@ when he felt a sleep, I dare not to move my body except my fingers on iPhone. Then very serious thought, I don't want a baby now ><

Gonna be 35 years old soon. An old age to me >_< then sis continues reminding me this 'hey, you going to be 40 la' hohhh!

Till then, happy young age and happy April fool ya!

2803 special!

Today is my papa 64th birthday!

This is the SMS I sent to my papa
亲爱的爸爸，生日快乐！身体健康遨游世界有我陪你！嘻嘻😁
Dearest papa, happy birthday! Good health and travelling around the world with my companion! Hehe :D

Laogong pulling my legs 'seems like you are doing advertisement callout' :p



Today, is also 13th year I been staying with the same man (sound complaining:p) in my life. Asked laogong to go KL and we go paktor after work. 'You go paktor by your own la, I want to come back home do something' ya, I don't expect much from a relationship after 13 years >_<

Anyway, 28 March is an very important day for my most important beloved men. I love both my papa and laogong much, I wish them good health, staying happy. Well control of their cholesterol level, blood pressure reading and.. temper and anger :p


28march2014 01:14
With laogong's snoring as background vocal hehe

Ps: staying awake at this hour, couldn't fall asleep.. no late day caffein taken, guess, am on stress hmmm..