2908 Wednesday

For this is the will of God, that by doing good you should put to silence the ignorance of foolish people. Live as people who are free, not using your freedom as a cover-up for evil, but living as servants of God.
(1 Peter 2:15, 16 ESV)




good morning ^^ when I got in the train, I nap. 30 min. I wake up, my head was on someone's shoulder ^0^ good man who sitting beside me, coz he lend his shoulder to me, force too heheheh :p



wake up at 5+am, I cook fish bah kut teh with mushroom too. pack myself and royee lunch box to eat in the office and the school.



last night I brought royee for pizza as dinner.. happily he enjoyed the cheese and soft drink. we took 1/4 glass of the drink only.



then we went to supermarket for grocery.



the habit of love sharing from the kinder till now, royee always ask for some foods to share with his friends :) yesterday he bought Oreo cookies.



decided to change the school for royee as we prefer the time table for the school that Angels got in. all morning session and co-curriculum scheduled on weekday. I asked royee how many good friends he gonna miss, he said one - very good friend. since we don't know he gonna be in the same class with the good friend, and he can get new friends in the new school, so devil mummy persuade him for a school exchange >.< don't know good or bad, but what I can see is, we gonna have quality morning session if mummy sends babies to the school every morning :)



we took the above pic for my girls . miss them much..




must be busy preparing a practicing for year end concert. happy story is, this Friday is a national public holiday, so we can all stay together in longer weekend :)



time flies.. my girls going to be standard one. in year 2008, when I moved to bkt31, and this of year 2012 a transition year for angels and royee to be in 2 different locations, I got headache all the time. how to handle? good or bad affect to the children mental development? how are my parents feeling? how to stay 2 different locations and cope with the separation of children and parents?.... and now, we left 3 months to cope with all these.. then we gonna stay together day and night :D






'I hope morning wake up call is not by the alarm clock, but DREAM' ^^

happy Wednesday and today I am in playsuit :p

2808 Tuesday

'take the journey.. fall in love.. and experience the titanic.. like never before..'



the trailer of the 3D titanic playing in the train. to fall in love we need a journey, build a relationship from zero, the time taken, the effort and passion putting in, make the love relationship stronger and long lasting. only time can tell the true love is..



am in wet. quite heavy rain this morning and I don't use umbrella. wearing white blouse, sweet orange colour skirt, and flowery sweet sling bag. you can see my bra after the rain coz the blouse is light and thin ^0^



last night after dinner, I guide royee to finish his homework and 2 activity books for final exam preparation. at the same time, I build bonding with baby shyuan :p



cute girl.



she smile she play by her own if the poo poo is out..



if not she non stop bising this and that :(



mummy and baby. the best thing in maternity leave is, you do nothing but bonding with your baby, and you still get paid from the company. the 2nd month is the sweetness begins :D



after fullmoon you can move around more easily, baby has gained weight, more easier to take care.. so everyday, enjoy the precious moments ^^



well, confinement rule is only followed by someone for only 1 month. after 1 month, no more long pant and sweater. you don't see socks and patient look anymore :p

once laogong reached home 'have you done your homework? go and practise your piano song' father is so practical. for me, the 1st thing I always ask my children is 'hey baby~ how are you today? good girl / boy ma? have you taken your meal?' then allow children to hug to smell to manja me.. this is more human being talk ^0^



papa teacher guiding royee boy in piano playing. sweet lullaby they playing :) after practicing, royee and i lying on the bed and i read the kids magazine for him with all sorts of high and low cartoon voice. royee non stop laughing, we were having great story telling time :D then laogong went and do housework.



..then started complaining me on this and that.. everything seems not right :( I don't bother continue lying on the bed.. royee non stop asking me to sleep first 'you sleep 1st then only I sleep' he was so sleepy look.. I guess he is worried mummy will leave the house coz papa scolding much.. hmmm bad nursing way in my house, coz laogong always talk seriously.



thought of completing my sewing purse after royee sleeping, but look at laogong was on fire, I switch off the light and pretending sleep, let laogong complete everything :p now the house is clean and tidy. laogong iron me a blouse too ^0^ I am do thankful to have a laogong who does housework, good training from mother in law. for the mumbling, I can just ignored :p








many ppl are not happy because they have lots of unneeded things and lacking of needed things.



happy Tuesday! cup cakes from my boss to all of us yesterday.. I given mine to the cleaner kakak ^^

good Monday ^^

good morning Monday :D am in the train be like a sandwich, squeeze in between 2 ppl in a 3 seated bench. so now am blogging with strong perfume aroma on my left and another don't know what smell at my right :p



my latest children pic ^0^



suddenly got extra one without pregnancy hehehe. btw, see my angel's panty? ^0^



from the pic, you would like royee likes baby the most, then angel, then Eva..



Eva not really bother about babies.. hmm wonder when she grows up she would have her baby or not >_<



anyway, just hoping my little man can be a good father and husband to his future family. I always lecture him to be a responsible and caring man.



^^

well, last night when I wanted to leave my mama's house, Eva was moody. she wanted me to stay. now I am stuck in the middle, one of the reason for my to stay in bkt31, I want to do housework and be with royee. then at the same time, helping my sis to take care her baby so she can rest. but I know my girls can really feel I have neglected them :(



angel can now smiling and looking at me when I am sleeping. how she miss me this weekend mummy hmmm...

have the plan of doing revision with royee from September. so he is more ready for the October final exam. been neglected his study.. besides, I want to clear all the activity books that I bought for him. to me, I don't really bother about my children academy result, but my limit is - not the last few classes. I want them to be middle or middle up. this is to show, they absorb at least half of the total knowledge that teacher sharing.


these 2 new mothers have shared their feeling - not easy to be a mummy aaaa.. ya true, once you become a mummy or guardian then you feel your life is a total change. you gonna be more alert and sensitive all about your children. milk price increase, milk powder is not safe, the price of the new theme park tickets, when is the school holiday... not only looking at our own children, we directly or indirectly tend to see what other ppl children doing and having to do a benchmarking to our children benefits..



jia you lo.. long ways to go. am everyday learning to be a better mum. always plan to have more activities to do with my bbb. but plan is plan, ad-hoc schedule always disturb my initial plan..



keeping faith everyday :)



happy Monday. a brand new week ahead!
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below are something I wanted to do with my children.. but don't know when >_< day before angel again asking about their 2nd sewing project with mummy teacher :(

aloha Friday!

today am wearing GREEN, then fatty fatty like a green apple :D




miss my bbb. 2 with in law, 1 with my mama. my mama called me last night to chat with me, sharing the fun stories of royee boy. royee helps in my digo's restaurant too. I also called my girls, they told me they were eating maggie instant noodle at 10pm! children experience different things when they are away from mummy, this is good too. but cannot be too frequent, then we can't get our children back to the track we want them to be ^^




back to work in raya holiday, an alone cover for the work, have to prioritise TOP urgent work from the SUPER urgent work @_@ that is tiring. I don't drink coffee much, but yesterday I bought one to make myself stay awake for non stop incoming workssss... didn't go out for lunch too, it is pressured, but time pass very fast :)

lately, from raya holidays, I been not doing housework and cooking. laogong settled all in raya holidays. this is the comment I got from him, when I was lying on the bed 'you, failed on housework, 30% only, nope, not even 30 marks you get' wahh.. rest for few days only then my performance as a housewife dropped to below 30%. that including I brought children outing to kl and in law house. whatever it is, I continue to sleep, tired ma @_@




from my sis's blog, sharing her feeling on confinement month. because I don't do housework, so she do it. because I don't cook, so she has nothing much to eat. her wound and legs started aching.. hmm I feel guilty about this, last night I can't sleep well. this morning the same feeling is with me..

thinking back on my 2 confinements. for my 1st baby, my mama cook for me, then laogong pack foods for me when there is no food cooking. I take care my boy by my own too. my papa and mama play with the baby in day time. i express milk too, with manual pump. I wash I walk I bring baby see doctor. come to my twin girls, I need to taking care 3 babies at 1 go, coz only one year old gap.

when recalling all these memories and experience, the involvement is meaningful and warm. of course it is tiring, frustrated too when baby crying for nothing, the milk is too little after almost an hour expressing.. we can't buy all these moments when we are fully with our baby in the 1st precious month. day and night they are with us, we handle each of the cranky moment, we worried on each of the colic discomfort, we cherish on each of the nice poo poo..

we have many rules in confinement month, for Chinese. but all these rules shouldn't stop us from enjoying this valuable touch to everything about our new born. the great chance to force ourselves to be a responsible parents and exercising those nursing and parenting tips. tiredness is always come before we tasting the sweetness of the satisfaction fruits.




husband involvement is very important to ease wife burden. everyone is new as a parent. so father and mother should take role in taking care the baby. routine and schedule need to be adjusted to fit in the new born. changes are needed, so everyone can adapt to the change faster and with willingness. father's role is not helping the mother when helping hands needed, father needs to put the baby care as 1 of the schedule, and of course, taking care mother with full responsibility as she is wife of baby's father.




this weekend baby shyuan is fullmoon. hope everything gets better, so my sis can handle the baby well and have more sleep. in fact, once your are a mother, unless your baby is taking care by nanny for day and night, you gonna have no good quality sleeping hours till baby grows up >_< this gonna last for few years. baby sick or cranky you cannot sleep well, baby sleeping too quietly, you checking their breath too... so father should take turn to take care the baby, so the mother can let go the 24hours worry for few hours..




I thank to laogong always take the dawn shift to take care baby while doing his study and office work - baby sometime in rocker, in stroller, on sofa or in his cradle :)




happy Friday! ^^

hello Thursday!

if every working day the traffic is smooth like today, then i am more willing to go working happily ^0^ many people still be on leave for raya holidays, so less car on the road, the office is quiet too. however, the workload is not reduced @_@


me and baby shyuan. chubby chubby aaa. from the pic only I realise, my eye bags made me look older :( well, we have to accept the fact, baby grow up everyday, grow taller, fatter.. then of course we as adults grow older too.. hmmm..



she is smiling when I call her 'xin en aaa..' cute little one :)



we always disturb her sweet dream at slumberland when the time she supposes to be awake for milk or long hours sleeping.


this pic, you can see her open her tiny little eyes when she hears me snapping her pic then, continue sleeping :p



baby on mummy's tummy, I miss the days when I put my bbb on my body to feel the warm, to make them feel secured :)

my children are holidays in grandparents house. so I sleep alone these few nights. good night sleep, but still, never feel enough @_@ thanks to sis who surprised me with all the housework done last night, so I can eat and chat with her, then play with baby shyuan before I gone sleeping :)



of course, when sis is walking much and not resting enough, she feeling not well and aching here and there. I prepared her a pail of warm boiled_ginger_water to soak her tired feet, to warm the body too. I always do this especially when I stay up in the midnight to complete my sewing pieces :p



good transformation to see my sis is more responsible and matured to be a mummy to the little one. witness the growing of a human being. experience the effort and sacrifice of parents to treasure more on own parents and own self ^^



me too, children growing up day by day, I love myself more, coz I hope to stay longer with them, to share their happiness and sadness along the journey. I feel more for my parents, coz it this not easy to raise children in the way you want it to be.



children smiles pay off everything ^^



enjoy your Thursday ^^