2009 flora Thursday

good morning~


breakfast from laogong :*

wonder if you all drink milo with condensed milk like last time our parents usually did? for very long time, my house doesn't have condensed milk in the fridge. so we always drink pure milo only. my children too coz they don't know milo to drink with condensed milk :p when I was small, coz I don't drink milk powder after age1. so my mama always give me barley with condensed milk. manis oooo.. but it works to raise a fatty and healthy baby :D



today am wearing flowers - bag got flower design, dress too, and the shoes with ring flowers :p today mission is to clear many many pending works. then final touch up on my digo's restaurant new menu. more new dishes added in, all yummy yummy ooo~



the pressure is there when the business hours extended to cater for dinner time. variety of choices to attract customers to come often.



to earn more so these 2 ppl can have better treat :p my ersao getting slimmer, then baby song song getting cutie fatter and taller :D



these 2 are now suffering @_@ coz my sis always 'playing' baby shyuan when sis is free and got nothing to do. then when my sis is tired and sleepy, is time for shyuan to bully the mummy, make noise for everything :D



shyuan xin en at almost 2 months. started to ee ee oo oo already.

ok, just pen off here. I want to check groupon, see if I can get some special class for bbb at competitive prices. hehe smart mummy :p



Bbbb done this from a clay class. very cute ooo


the bottles are cute! my bbb are sweet and cute! :D look at angel, she is the one with all sort of accessories on her body - hair band, sling bag, vest macam macam ada. her mix and match idea can go wild!



my Bbbb = my happiness ^^


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1909 sharing ^^

hehe^^ very tired everyday, can snooze off at anytime, anywhere. luckily today I am in ladies coach, so women should understand how a working mother gone through, go to the office with tiredness, snoring in the train, reach th station and continue working smart in the office.




what I am on this week? UAT for the integration system that my office is now working on. the whole week from 9.30am to 9pm @_@ but u left early, as i need to pick up my royee boy from the child care centre. final week for me to stay with him. sister going back to work by next week, so fast, 2 months maternity leaves have just gone like that.


dinner with the boy ^^


art work doing for royee's homework :) I like to see laogong's smile ^^

"😊 today morning officemate brought nice kuih from indon, made me think of you ☀ nice day!"



^^

recharged

我只想唱这一首老情歌，
让回忆拥满心头。
当时光飞逝，已不知秋冬，
这是我唯一的线索。
人说情歌总是老的好，
走遍天涯海角忘不了。
我说情人却是老的好，
曾经苍海桑田分不了。
我只想唱这一首老情歌，
愿歌声飞到你左右。
虽然你不能和我长相守，
但求你永远在心中。
我只想唱这一首老情歌，
让往事回汤在四周。
啊，事到如今已无所可求，
这是我仅有的寄托。



tonight, my heart got comforted **

confused

suddenly, I have the feeling of directionless.. in the office and in my marriage..


in the office, everything seems alright, I work hard, I got recognition, then boss trusted me, then putting more responsibility on my shoulder. I welcome new challenge, I am so much into learning new experience and knowledge. but, would this make my other officemate not comfortable with me? i am now in the middle, to take or not to take, to fight in the workload war with full passion and spirit or to slow down? before I entering a people relationship war. hmmm... I am not here to compete with others, I just want to challenge my yesterday me.



I always have the thought, I would leave the role when everyone likes me. I don't like to leave a place, because people or the environment dislike me. find way to balancing this feeling imbalance.

talking about my marriage. everything seems so right. a living of husband and wife with 3 lovely children. when things gone routine, day in day out has become habit and ordinary, then passion missing. passion of creating sparkle in love relationship, passion of bringing children more excitement and new experience. the level of caring and understanding to other person has reduced. assumption of one's feeling always occur as we think we know the person well. so, when assumption gone high, talking lesser, clarification lesser, communication seems not important anymore. when the serious talking take over, then the feeling seems so tense and voice tone getting higher. then heart become more emptier after the not feeling good communication.




am I requesting too much? or the need of love is too demanding? too sensitive? as I shared with my sister, she said 'aiya, we also like that la..' or many other couples gone though this when years in marriage increased? sometime I just feel like, woman take care of household, make sure children need have well taken, to give a not so pressure and noisy environment for husband to rest at home after a day of tiring office work. when come to late night, putting on the blankets for children, switch off the light when husband is snoring.. then we are either smile in happiness or feeling lonely when thinking of, I take care everything well, I put in my family schedule in my schedule, but, is there anyone understand what I want? is there anyone care to ask 'how are you?' sincerely. or this is normal to all the mummy out there? or this is why people always say, mother is so great. mother takes care everything by putting herself aside. hmm just wonder..



well, as I always believe good attitude towards life, can bring us to higher level of satisfaction and success. so continue to be me, continue to do what I feel good. maybe I will get my deserved rewards at the end of the journey :)






good day!

the sex talk

'the birds and the bees'


would like to recommend you who are parents or guardian to home children for this educational DVD 'the birds and the bees' it is from Korea, you have Chinese and English subtitles and speaking language too.



the 3 DVD series talk about sex education in interesting way that attract the children, make them understand more in simple but informative animation story line. my children watch them again and again, so do I.



1st disc tells about how we are coming from that make us so special. it tells about how sperm and egg meet. how the body structure facilitate the long journey of the meet up.

well, there is a scene where the drawing show (few seconds only) how papa and mama get closure so the sperms can go into mama's body, so it show 1 is papa on top of mama, another 1 is mama sit on top of mama.

well, the query came up like this..
angel: mummy, you and papa also do like this ma?
mummy: yes, or else how the sperms get into mummy's body?
angel: :)
mummy: or like this? (do few actions of the children in the movie thought how sperms can go into mummy's body)
bbb: :D
angel: but... papa's thigh won't break ma?
mummy: (oopss) aiyo~ mummy is not sitting on top and dancing ma.. be careful de..

interesting question and query, to answer in funny but right way, hopefully children accept it in positive way :)




this 2nd disc tells about the different roles of male and female. the difference between male and female in term of body structure and emotion bank ^^



this 3rd disc tells us 'there is secret who shouldn't keep' when we are being bullied or abused by other people. a simple storyline that shows how a happy girl turns to lonely and isolated sad girl after she being sex harassment by parents good friend. I cried when I watching this as I put myself as the girl, who are alone and in fear to handle the 'secret'.

parents to beware of chances or potential chances for our children to being sex harassment and abused as the negative impact to the children can go with them forever. the midnight crying in fear even after many years when the same feeling or scene come back their mind. so, pls protect our children and pray for children to live in a secured environment and grow up happily.

so, you can get the DVD from popular bookstore. if you don't know how to share this topic with your children, but you cannot avoid this sex education, then you can watch the DVD with your children, so they understand more right information, and they are learning with you ^^

aloha!

good morning Tuesday, today is 911, a college friend's birthday ^^ just wonder, every year I SMS him the birthday wishes, sometime he replied, sometime he didn't, if he still remember me?



as what a story tells, ppl asks a man, why he still treating the wife so nice, doing the romantic routine everyday, while the wife has lost her memory and stay in the hospital. the man said 'she has no memory about me, but I still know who is she'.


to me, there is no natural born romantic person. a romantic person is who treasure the relationship and appreciate love and bonding between 2. you want the person to be happy, you do things to cheer him or her up with sincere effort and care.



last night I make the space clear. bought a big casing to store my fabric collection. my officemate wants to do coin purse together with me. so last night I came up this, cut the fabric with according to the pattern, hopefully we can do it together in this coming Friday lunch hours ^^




that day I curi snapped this pic :p I like the bag idea. plan to do one. now in my hand I have a wallet for royee, pending to final sewing. then I will submit a sewing class homework, a handphone pouch, before I go for more own idea stuff :)

happy touch!

today I got a surprise that made my eyes wet wet. recognition that touched my heart and I am thankful for it ^^




again, ATTITUDE is the only way to bring us forward no matter how big or small tasks we handle.
small little pieces of joy and touch, make it to the picture of my total happiness ^^ am grateful for what I am having :)
capturing feeling @ 00:34 911




can't sleep now.. not because of too happy, but 2 big mugs of hot tea this morning in the office @_@

0709 Friday

can't find my long jean and office t-shirt, so I wear jean dress today :D unwilling to wake up this morning, same to royee boy. last night we reached home at 11pm+ after attending my grandma's bday celebration.


see happy faces.. see my papa happy.. see my grandma really old but fit.. see song song becoming bigger size ^^



sis, royee and I reached when everyone taking family pic. surprised to see us ^^



my grandma with her eldest and youngest sons :)



pic taken before we joining in.. my gals grow taller! and my ersao getting slimmer with sexy body curve :p



we joined in!



simple and yet a very warm small gathering that held very last minute. not calling every relative, 4pm decided to have party at 8pm. so we would expect when all the party photos are up, those who didn't know about this gathering would jump! :p suppose to have a very grand one in the restaurant, but my grandma doesn't want it, and there people said we shouldn't celebrate our birthday when we are old. pantang ooo.. so last night, we have no birthday cake.
I slept at 1am+ last night..



coz I received these!!



ta-da! just a few click during lunch, and you can spend your salary for what you want without going out :p



all the cutie and sweetie fabrics for my sewing projects.. with no project end timeline ^0^



showed laogong this, he said 'I am going to cane you! this I can make also! buy this kin of paper then do the photocopy using the copier machine, then you will have this ma..' hello uncle, this is iron-on-stickers ok! not projector slide @_@



laogong said 'so tonight you not going to sleep right?' kekekke... these parcels really make up my day!







come! let's shake your bum bum and enjoy today! TGIF ya!



ps: my bbb like standing in the train kekekke :p