1st oct royee bday

October is a busy and happening month in my family ^^


We start with eldest son's birthday :D


A whole day time thinking where to celebrate and how to celebrate the boy's birthday, but what he wants is only his favourite restaurant..


The chicken rice shop!


Running to the restaurant happily!


Sharing his feeling of unfairness teacher treating him. He got 2 ejaan words wrong, instead of 2 strokes, teacher cane him 6! :(



The birthday boy eating the rice quietly..coz he spill one glass of soya bean >_< then papa lectured him..


And you can see Eva also not smiling.. Coz after the 1st spill, we got another glass of soya bean spill over the table and floor @_@


Ya, for the 1st time this girl is proudly announcing this - I secured my soya bean, now like gogo and mei mei! :p

After the chicken rice shop we went to secret recipe for cake slices..


Papa and bbb ^^


Mama and bbb^^


Har? I am only 1 year old ar? 'The cake slice is small, if we put 8 candles later the cake got burnt oo!' :D



With the light' on :) my 8 year old boy ^^


We ordered 3 slices of cake, we let royee tasted all 3 flavours 1st...


Then we wallop all! :D


ya never forget a family pic on this special day ^^ from the picture your know who always stick with papa, who is closer with mama, who is always the middle man and feeling observer :p


Started dah, playing with the candle..


^^


Bought him a pair of school shoes. For toys, we wait for weekend..

So after papa spending for the dinner and cakes, mama said 'let's go, mama treat you all herbal tea!' :D


I know it sounds cheaper but children like it!


Especially when 5 of us can do this simple thingy together ;)


Why the angel is with this face expression?



Coz funny to see the papa drinking bitter tea :p



Everyone got a good laugh and left the mall :p

oct swing

这世界笑了
于是你
合群的一起笑了
当生存是规则不是你的选择
于是你
含着眼泪
飘飘荡荡跌跌撞撞地走着

Ended last night with terrible mood, started this morning with frustration. Feeling tired of my daily life these few days.




能不能就让配角全部结束在此刻 重新开始活着

Fire up! Ready to go!

1st oct 2013

'Today is a special day!' Royee came to me with smile :)


Ya! Today is my son's birthday!


We had pre-birthday celebration last night. 1st time for bbb to taste chicken rice balls. Their excitement worth for the money spent ^0^


When I was showering, he shared this..

Mama, I have 3 wishes. 1st, I want a larger school shoes. This is is a bit tight.
'Your shoes are newly bought by grandma oo, means you have grown up so fast! Am now worried, very soon you gonna be taller than mummy lo ^0^'

2nd wish is ---toys hehe
'Ok, this weekend we will look for one :)'

3rd wish is I want papa to be a Christian.
' :) you tell papa about this. Let's pray for papa :)'

Happily, the boy walked away ^^

A simple and yet meaningful wish list for what-a-boy wants :)



To remember my 8th year in motherhood, last night I shared with bbb on the success story of jay chau, how he went thru the downtime in his childhood and then how he never give up before he got his success. Then this morning, wefollowed with his song 'listen to mama's words 听妈妈的话'



Tonight will be a night of small celebration to my 8 years old big boy ^^

　
妈妈的辛苦 不让你看见 　　
温柔的事 是否在她心里面 　　
有空就多多握著她的手 　　
把手牵著一起梦游 　　
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤 　　
想快快长大 才能保护她 　　
美丽的白发 幸福中发芽 　　
天使的魔法 温暖中慈祥

Punishment

These few days am a bit worried and tired at the same time on children characters education.












Lately, few closed friends and relatives talking about the best way to teach my children to obey instruction or behave themselves are by caning them. I wonder, this way of punishment would it be a permanent solution or it serves as temporary effect to calm parents down?

I want my children to be good too. I feel unhappy and frustrated when children not following instruction or doing not-so-right things in front of or behind me. I am not the mother who disagree fully on caning children. However, when to cane? The effectiveness of corporal punishment?



I always think this, when we get a light cut by paper, we accidentally hit by car door, we got a slap by a baby.. We normally 'ouch! It is painful!' So, imagine an angry parent, with full of anger and frustration, with the thought of hoping the child to be good, the big lash of cane 123 strokes laid on the child tenderly skin.. Won't it hurts? This actions have hurt the child body, soul, trustworthy and respect... And the same time, when you see the mark on the body, won't be the parent's heart tearing?


Now everyday confuse me is am I doing right things to my children? If one day in the future, my children are names as bad persons, would I be blamed for my so called love education? The lovely teaching way of me, would it brings warmth to my children?

At home, most of the time I won't say 'if you do this, I will hit you打你' normally I say 'if you do it next time, I will punish you惩罚你' coz, beating is not a friendly word, when you mention the word, you have already felt the pain.

Today, it comes to a deal made situation. I express my frustration to my children. I said many people asked mummy to cane you so you listen to mummy. But I don't want to treat you like an animal. But the limit is always there. I will definitely cane you if you don't follow the God's 10 commandments.


'If I find you cheating, lying, not honest, bad relationship with guys and girls, I will punish you. I will surely cane you'

Guess what, I feel empty after saying this. Ahh.. What a day start. My mama said this when I leaving the house, 'you need to give more time to royee, need to teach him now before it is too late' hmmm...



Sometime we as parents, we are too sensitive or over react to children behaviour. What we see in the world, might not the same as their view. To get the balance point, rules and regulations need to be set. To come up the best way is staying together - patience, love, time.

2409 raining tue

Today we are late to the school - again! 2 teachers came to 'welcome' bbb and headmistress standing aside with ready-to-scold mood >< as I know the punishment for late to school sometime is to pick up rubbish at the field. Somehow the school is clean, so 3 siblings happily go to have a walk at the field @_@



Good morning with the new ios7 interface ^^ I changed this wallpaper when I was in china, easy for me to show to the china relatives and friends how my children look like :D

Normally ppl ask, 'the boy older or the girls older?' 'Are the 2 girls twins?' Not so comfortable note is - the jie jie is prettier than mei mei @_@ to me, inner and outer beauty counted as one standard - I hope it is a balanced beauty for both of them.



The new iPhone interface - unlock your phone screen, hehe the buttons seem big but I like the colour tone. Rainbow colours for SIM card unlock screen.



Rainbow~



Guess this is most of the parents of school students been waiting for - 2014 public and school holidays :P every year hoping the same - more annual leave, more leisure money to spend for family trips ^0^ The year is yet to come, we have 2 travel trips waiting.. This is how I keep myself moving and looking forward for a brand new year :D



Sis and I did think of celebrate Christmas at Singapore. Hmmm... With baby shyuan? Do you think this is workable? Enjoyable trip? Carry a baby with our backpack on and most probably walking from the dawn to the late night..



Somehow we shouldn't underestimate this cute devil doll :p sis and I been talking, my children won't listen to me, and her baby won't listen to her. So we need to swap our role in taking care these 4 babies :p



Better stop spending unnecessary money so we can have better experience in nihongo country. However, 3months to year end, I can't guarantee my dearly sis would come out any devil idea or not ^0^






Tata! Happy Tuesday! The sunshine comes after the morning rain :D

22sept2013

Sunday - a day with bbb ^^



Morning breeze companied us to have breakfast at the park


Then I got the girl to practise her singing contest song


Siblings chit chatting ^^


I feel lucky to have children who love the green :) so I have partners for natural outing ^^


The girl wanted me to snap this pic 'mummy, I am a flower on the ground' @~

Lots of housework for me to clear in this hot weather. The washing machine must be tired :p


When I watched the cartoon channel that bbb been talking to, then I found bbb were doing others..


The girl mentioned the sport car names, then the boy answered the cars origin countries. Impressed with his memory


The girl disturbing the brother who memorising the car names


Then I played congkak with them. I taught them the games rules. I won few times and lose few times too ><


Sometime they arguing when other person got more buttons than them..


So can see them crying and shouting for 'unfairness' @_@


When I was busy in the kitchen to wash dishes and prepare bbb tea break..


I saw them created mess at the backyard @_@ they were happy with the soil and dirt.


Got them showered for tea break.


Simple tea break for bbb but they didn't finish it. Busy watching tv..


I brought office work to study at home. But I have no time to sit down for it :( looking forward for a more productive week ahead, I want to fast pick up the skill for me to carry our my daily work.



Me in the office. A bit rude hor :p