Tuesday, September 11, 2012

the sex talk

'the birds and the bees'


would like to recommend you who are parents or guardian to home children for this educational DVD 'the birds and the bees' it is from Korea, you have Chinese and English subtitles and speaking language too.



the 3 DVD series talk about sex education in interesting way that attract the children, make them understand more in simple but informative animation story line. my children watch them again and again, so do I.



1st disc tells about how we are coming from that make us so special. it tells about how sperm and egg meet. how the body structure facilitate the long journey of the meet up.

well, there is a scene where the drawing show (few seconds only) how papa and mama get closure so the sperms can go into mama's body, so it show 1 is papa on top of mama, another 1 is mama sit on top of mama.

well, the query came up like this..
angel: mummy, you and papa also do like this ma?
mummy: yes, or else how the sperms get into mummy's body?
angel: :)
mummy: or like this? (do few actions of the children in the movie thought how sperms can go into mummy's body)
bbb: :D
angel: but... papa's thigh won't break ma?
mummy: (oopss) aiyo~ mummy is not sitting on top and dancing ma.. be careful de..

interesting question and query, to answer in funny but right way, hopefully children accept it in positive way :)




this 2nd disc tells about the different roles of male and female. the difference between male and female in term of body structure and emotion bank ^^



this 3rd disc tells us 'there is secret who shouldn't keep' when we are being bullied or abused by other people. a simple storyline that shows how a happy girl turns to lonely and isolated sad girl after she being sex harassment by parents good friend. I cried when I watching this as I put myself as the girl, who are alone and in fear to handle the 'secret'.

parents to beware of chances or potential chances for our children to being sex harassment and abused as the negative impact to the children can go with them forever. the midnight crying in fear even after many years when the same feeling or scene come back their mind. so, pls protect our children and pray for children to live in a secured environment and grow up happily.

so, you can get the DVD from popular bookstore. if you don't know how to share this topic with your children, but you cannot avoid this sex education, then you can watch the DVD with your children, so they understand more right information, and they are learning with you ^^




aloha!

good morning Tuesday, today is 911, a college friend's birthday ^^ just wonder, every year I SMS him the birthday wishes, sometime he replied, sometime he didn't, if he still remember me?



as what a story tells, ppl asks a man, why he still treating the wife so nice, doing the romantic routine everyday, while the wife has lost her memory and stay in the hospital. the man said 'she has no memory about me, but I still know who is she'.


to me, there is no natural born romantic person. a romantic person is who treasure the relationship and appreciate love and bonding between 2. you want the person to be happy, you do things to cheer him or her up with sincere effort and care.



last night I make the space clear. bought a big casing to store my fabric collection. my officemate wants to do coin purse together with me. so last night I came up this, cut the fabric with according to the pattern, hopefully we can do it together in this coming Friday lunch hours ^^




that day I curi snapped this pic :p I like the bag idea. plan to do one. now in my hand I have a wallet for royee, pending to final sewing. then I will submit a sewing class homework, a handphone pouch, before I go for more own idea stuff :)





happy touch!

today I got a surprise that made my eyes wet wet. recognition that touched my heart and I am thankful for it ^^




again, ATTITUDE is the only way to bring us forward no matter how big or small tasks we handle.
small little pieces of joy and touch, make it to the picture of my total happiness ^^ am grateful for what I am having :)
capturing feeling @ 00:34 911




can't sleep now.. not because of too happy, but 2 big mugs of hot tea this morning in the office @_@

Friday, September 07, 2012

0709 Friday




can't find my long jean and office t-shirt, so I wear jean dress today :D unwilling to wake up this morning, same to royee boy. last night we reached home at 11pm+ after attending my grandma's bday celebration.


see happy faces.. see my papa happy.. see my grandma really old but fit.. see song song becoming bigger size ^^



sis, royee and I reached when everyone taking family pic. surprised to see us ^^



my grandma with her eldest and youngest sons :)



pic taken before we joining in.. my gals grow taller! and my ersao getting slimmer with sexy body curve :p



we joined in!



simple and yet a very warm small gathering that held very last minute. not calling every relative, 4pm decided to have party at 8pm. so we would expect when all the party photos are up, those who didn't know about this gathering would jump! :p suppose to have a very grand one in the restaurant, but my grandma doesn't want it, and there people said we shouldn't celebrate our birthday when we are old. pantang ooo.. so last night, we have no birthday cake.
I slept at 1am+ last night..



coz I received these!!



ta-da! just a few click during lunch, and you can spend your salary for what you want without going out :p



all the cutie and sweetie fabrics for my sewing projects.. with no project end timeline ^0^



showed laogong this, he said 'I am going to cane you! this I can make also! buy this kin of paper then do the photocopy using the copier machine, then you will have this ma..' hello uncle, this is iron-on-stickers ok! not projector slide @_@



laogong said 'so tonight you not going to sleep right?' kekekke... these parcels really make up my day!







come! let's shake your bum bum and enjoy today! TGIF ya!



ps: my bbb like standing in the train kekekke :p

Thursday, September 06, 2012

messy Thursday

today day start with mess.. mess in my mind..mess in morning preparation.


learnt a lesson today..


..all trust in God's will ^^


this morning laogong wake me up , he told me it was 7am! 'I have switch off your alarm' haiya!!! no wonder I can sleep like a pig la, no alarm, so comfortable warm bed >_< kelam kabut I went to the bath room, and royee came to me, 'I can't find my sports shirt' hmmm without spec, I looked for him the shirt in my room, couldn't find. then asked help from laogong.. then kelam kabut everyone hmmm..



pack my breakfast from here..


am eating this in the office ^^



last night when I reached home, sis was watching drama series and carrying baby shyuan with no face expression. sis said baby was too cranky for nothing crying and crying after everything fulfilled. hehe.. hope my sis won't lose her interest towards this baby, coz shyuan is sis's own daughter aaaa ^^



baby got crying time, and happy smiling fun time too!


2 of them are 'stim' :p

yesterday in the office, got to know a officemate is found to have lung cancer stage2 after his 1kidney removal operation. when case like this happen to our near circle, then the impact brings more strength. so I told laogong, to take good care of himself. try to avoid those unhealthy food and have quality sleep hours. when you know you going to die soon, when you know you going to leave your beloved family behind, is all other materialistic and negative feeling towards your enemies still important?


treasure what we are having. get the true happiness in your life :)



happy Thursday! can't wait for this Saturday outing with children :D

Wednesday, September 05, 2012

0509

today is Tuesday or Wednesday ya? hmm can't recall. just got a seat in the training after >35min standing @_@ I feel very tired today, and I cleared a lot of outstanding work too!



today when I reached the office in the morning, only realised my foot finger was bleeding >_< no wonder I felt not comfortable. this is not the 1st time I wear this sandals :(



today we have raya open house in he department ^^ I like this invitation design and the cute creative cup cakes design. the combination is by myself :D


after clearing off some urgent works, I helped the team for fruits cutting.


we got our homemade buah Rojak done!


we have hot hot lemang from the bamboo!


fresh fruits too!


see the yummy foods?


smell so tempting!!


ehehe before makan, snap pic 1st . from left - our department big sis faz, my team partner sofia, my new office neighbour jess (my ex supervisor, friend, big sis too!), and I am in baju kurung kedah ^0^


well, posing sikit with the satay, I put the satay back after the photo snapping. but this guy, gone with the satay :p btw, he was a singer? I heard about that but am not sure. but I heard his singing once in the team building, nice!



hehehe gambar session for orang yang syiok sendiri :p



we have many many nice things and foods for lucky draw..



this consider good lucky draw.. the last last numbers..


and I got this! rm10 cash voucher :D besides, each of us got a raya packet from our generous head of department :D




done with makan makan then get back to work :D 1 sit opposite the 1st guy (facing you) in the pic ^^




tata! reaching station.. to pick up my boy and pack dinner for my sis~