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@_@ sleepy..



Enjoyed my 1day raya haji holiday with my family :D so happy and relaxing, how nice if we can have more holidays in weekdays :p laogong was not at home, life went well too :p



Kitchen piping burst. So a good wife washing dishes at the backyard under the rain! At the same time, helping Eva to clean the messy backyard. By the way, Eva is my house compound PIC ^^


So after some hardwork, the reward time came!



See us, eat only!


Happy faces and very full stomach!



Night time I went to the church for drama practise. I am the digital background and sound effect PIC. Learnt new on stage skill when a drama teacher shared with us some good tips :)

Reached home nearly 11pm. Companied my mum eating supper. Sis and I chit chatting on virtual-Europe-trip :p

A good night sleep that ended with..



Working on my this morning meeting material at home and in the train! With sleepy eyes @_@

Well, I just obeyed to my company new CEO holiday advise 'stay away from PC and do thing I like' :D

Happy Wednesday!

0910 neo

a beautiful Wednesday morning starts with laogong companion, children existent, true heart seen, lesson learnt and wisdom grown ^^



After the blessing rain, the sunshine warm the shrunken heart ^^ I believe in rainbow after the rain, I believe in angels, there is always something good in everything I see :)

What I am up to lately?

Motivating myself to move forward fast! Learn the skillet that I need so I can excel in my work place. The new job scope has brought me down, started from zero. When I am about to move backward, I remind myself 'in real soon, am gonna handle all these difficulties confidently' :) keeping faith and fire up!

Hooking up to new change. In family, in parenting, husband wife relationship, work place, people relationship. Recently, I got 2 feedback on my relationship - you are too sensitive. You are too focus on your family. Guess, this is good, coz any other things we can buy with money, except for caring heart, beautiful family, good health and soul.

I feel to stay in foreign country for short term of one or two years. 1 family goes together. This feeling is so strong, just feel to leave everything behind, go to a stranger place, 5 of us staying together, be dependent to each other, explore new environment, overcome all the obstacles. Wishing by doing this, out hearts get connected more closer, we treasure each other value, no more neglecting family members need and care. I really hope to fly away now.




Told sis yesterday, now I want to focus on my family, work and volunteering job. Other than that, I want to pause a while, limited time and effort I can put in for all I want, or all people wants. is time for me to slow down in this year end before I sit down to set my 2014 resolution :)

Happy Wednesday! Today I am ready to meet up my bosses on my 1st project progress update ^^ gambatte!

Anniversaries

Today, when I read this from my cousin brother's fb, can really feel he is in ocean deep love with her cute gf. Young couple, 'you love me, I love you' and those kissing and hugging photos publish publicly :)

Think of what we were doing last time, when we were totally in love with our love one, the whole world was only him! Every night sleep in sweetness, chat in honey sweet tone..
When we grow matured, when our days and nights are not only you and me, then stories changed...

Scolding and yelling getting more common. Running around the house in rushing hours..

Either we try to avoid getting sick, or even we are sick, we try to go to work so we don't need to stay at home to be more sick..

All the ups and downs.. Made memory.. All the tears and scars, made wisdom. All the complaints and sour faces, made understanding.

Sometime we would wonder, why I chose to marry him or her, why things and feeling have changed, why sweetness turned to bitter..

Day by day, we realise, there is a reason God has put us together. Different addresses, different backgrounds, likes and dislikes.. You got what I don't have, I can help you out what is lacking in you..
Then we started to recall, what made us choosing each other as a life time partner. Then we accommodate what please our partner :)

We build family

We let the family grow with love

We maintain the growing family with laughters..

We celebrate wedding anniversaries year by year in growing numbers :)
2013 - 10 years anniversary of my marriage and 40 years for my beloved parents :)

Friday dah!

Double check if today is Friday when I am wearing casual t-shirt. Time flies so fast! Yesterday talking to my colleague, say Christmas coming and Chinese New Year too! Treasure time, coz time flashes fast.



Nah, 1 of the best way of maximising your time in the car - my girl completing her homework and eating breakfast biscuits at the same time! The activity book got missing 1mth+ ago, finally we found it after few times of teacher punishment @_@ so now she is completing half of the book pages...



2nd thing you can do during traffic jam - chit chatting, singing, lecturing, laughing with children :p siap can snap pic when royee busybody seeing Eva doing homework.

Happy Friday to you! Pen off 1st!

1st oct royee bday

October is a busy and happening month in my family ^^


We start with eldest son's birthday :D


A whole day time thinking where to celebrate and how to celebrate the boy's birthday, but what he wants is only his favourite restaurant..


The chicken rice shop!


Running to the restaurant happily!


Sharing his feeling of unfairness teacher treating him. He got 2 ejaan words wrong, instead of 2 strokes, teacher cane him 6! :(



The birthday boy eating the rice quietly..coz he spill one glass of soya bean >_< then papa lectured him..


And you can see Eva also not smiling.. Coz after the 1st spill, we got another glass of soya bean spill over the table and floor @_@


Ya, for the 1st time this girl is proudly announcing this - I secured my soya bean, now like gogo and mei mei! :p

After the chicken rice shop we went to secret recipe for cake slices..


Papa and bbb ^^


Mama and bbb^^


Har? I am only 1 year old ar? 'The cake slice is small, if we put 8 candles later the cake got burnt oo!' :D



With the light' on :) my 8 year old boy ^^


We ordered 3 slices of cake, we let royee tasted all 3 flavours 1st...


Then we wallop all! :D


ya never forget a family pic on this special day ^^ from the picture your know who always stick with papa, who is closer with mama, who is always the middle man and feeling observer :p


Started dah, playing with the candle..


^^


Bought him a pair of school shoes. For toys, we wait for weekend..

So after papa spending for the dinner and cakes, mama said 'let's go, mama treat you all herbal tea!' :D


I know it sounds cheaper but children like it!


Especially when 5 of us can do this simple thingy together ;)


Why the angel is with this face expression?



Coz funny to see the papa drinking bitter tea :p



Everyone got a good laugh and left the mall :p

oct swing

这世界笑了
于是你
合群的一起笑了
当生存是规则不是你的选择
于是你
含着眼泪
飘飘荡荡跌跌撞撞地走着

Ended last night with terrible mood, started this morning with frustration. Feeling tired of my daily life these few days.




能不能就让配角全部结束在此刻 重新开始活着

Fire up! Ready to go!

1st oct 2013

'Today is a special day!' Royee came to me with smile :)


Ya! Today is my son's birthday!


We had pre-birthday celebration last night. 1st time for bbb to taste chicken rice balls. Their excitement worth for the money spent ^0^


When I was showering, he shared this..

Mama, I have 3 wishes. 1st, I want a larger school shoes. This is is a bit tight.
'Your shoes are newly bought by grandma oo, means you have grown up so fast! Am now worried, very soon you gonna be taller than mummy lo ^0^'

2nd wish is ---toys hehe
'Ok, this weekend we will look for one :)'

3rd wish is I want papa to be a Christian.
' :) you tell papa about this. Let's pray for papa :)'

Happily, the boy walked away ^^

A simple and yet meaningful wish list for what-a-boy wants :)



To remember my 8th year in motherhood, last night I shared with bbb on the success story of jay chau, how he went thru the downtime in his childhood and then how he never give up before he got his success. Then this morning, wefollowed with his song 'listen to mama's words 听妈妈的话'



Tonight will be a night of small celebration to my 8 years old big boy ^^

　
妈妈的辛苦 不让你看见 　　
温柔的事 是否在她心里面 　　
有空就多多握著她的手 　　
把手牵著一起梦游 　　
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤 　　
想快快长大 才能保护她 　　
美丽的白发 幸福中发芽 　　
天使的魔法 温暖中慈祥