swimming at afamosa

choo choo train.. with 2nd uncle

grandpa 3 years prayer ceremony

this is 1 of the super big event in tiew's family. even we were wearing the same cloths for the ceremony, but compared to the funeral years back, this time, we are in happy n relax mood. ah gong is still in our heart ^_^ since mei asking about the ceremony photos, let me share with u the following photos, which taken by my handphone.

3 generations: white, blue, green

busybody royee, learning new thing..

while waiting for another prayer session

prayer session, spot the greenie royee~

all the daughters..

under the hot sun. right weather for the ceremony

house, car, money.. for ah gong

ready to burn

less than 3 minutes..

felt so sorry to the environment :(

makan makan after the ceremony at restaurant.. hmm 20 tables?

went to the ceremony at the evening after work. royee was at grandma's house. he saw me wearing blue cloths set. 'mummy, u r wearing blue color de, i am wearing green color de, teacher said, if they are not the same, then they are 'different'! (the whole sentence he speaking in mandarin, except colors and 'different') 1st time, he mentioned about 'difference' in english. i got suprised on this. ya, children learning everyday, n this mummy cant be able to catch it.

uncles n unties love to play around with royee. auntie asked 'royee, why only u alone wearing green color shirts, we all wearing blue n white' royee answered 'bu shi (no).. u all are big man, i am small man, small man wearing green color la' i love his logic :p while in the prayer, auntie called, 'royee, royee, why u...' with the sarcastic face, royee said 'i am shone jay thea royee la' our group laughed at this, ya, of course, the shifu in front n papa 'shhhhh!!!!!' :p wondering why, recently he likes to answer ppl any question with his own full name. my parents love to ask this 'royee, why your name is so long de? why shone jay thea royee?' 'my name is very long de la~ because i am shone jay thea royee ma.. cheng luo yi!' love this, sounds like he appreciate his name that given by his papa n mama :p

papa n mama

last nite laogong went for business cny dinner. i was waiting in the office till nearly 10pm. felt so guilty. coz these 2 days i went back late n left house early in the morning, bbb were sleeping. then i felt so frustrated, coz i didnt had not packed my bag for today outing. hmm. we took 10:03pm train back to putrajaya, then reached home 11pm+ 11:40pm then only started to look for baju for the outing.

i couldnt get anything from my wardrobe, my cloths more are for office wear, or, home wear @_@ then i went to my mum's wardrobe. wow!!! so many choices for me :p obviously, mum's cloths are more colorful n happy looking than my own baju. hubby said, michelle, next time u dont need to buy cloths, u wear your mum's one, more nice looking @_@

packed my bag till 1:30am. prepared to sleep. then dad was boiling water. then i talked to dad since long time i didnt sit down with him. then talked n talked, i didnt feel sleepy anymore. we talked about money. dad said, now he got less income due to economy crisis :( less demand for bird nest too - we have more free bird nest to eat :p he told me he needed to keep money for ah gong's 3 year prayer, which is in this mth, it definetly would be > rm10k then he wanted to save money for sis's wedding, 'at least i need to support her since both of them are just normal working' then dad wanted to reserve money for digo, 'who knows one day he wants to invest or doing business, right?' then he said 'i also need to reserve money for u all, what if u all need it one day'

love n touch. i can feel how much he loves us. not only helping us in buying house la, prepare us for our own family, but he also thinking on maintaining our current life, n prepare for those unexpected happen in the future. dad must be very tired. i think, for those parents who really care n love their children, all all like my papa, working hard, even now dad's knee n ankle are start feeling weak n pain, he still non stop thinking for children.. can really see papa is old already, his eye bags, wrinkle, dull skin tone :~ it made me recall 1 of the tv program i watched that day, when the giant of the family fall down, all collapsed. for me, i would definetly collapse, my dad is the best man to me, he is my lifelong supporter, if he cries, i would be helpless.. if he gone, i would be very really sad n empty...

after chatting about dad's money plan, i shared with dad about my office division transformation. dad's words comfort me. n he told me this, 'no matter what, it's ok, change doesnt mean the situation gonna be bad, it can be better too. so take it easy, if u have no job, never mind, look for job slowly' hmmm i know why dad wants to reserve money for us, coz if anything bad happen, he would take up our responsibilities n commitment, at least, my bbb for sure have milk to drink, n tuition fee to go to the school :( till when har? i can let my parents to feel easy to let us go n they dont need to worry about us, n enjoy their lives there?

hmmm.. nowadays, almost every night mum helps me to apply heat balm or massage my back or foot before i go to sleep. obviously, my body condition is weaker than mama. feel so embarrassed to tell this, mum needs to take care my bbb at day time, night time pula needs to massage me. how har, if one day papa n mama leave me.. :~~~

hmm chat with papa till 3:30am. then i went to sleep. all papa's words n facial expression was non stop floating on my mind. so tired.. so sleepy.. but my brain didnt rest.. when i almost felt asleep, both angel n eva crying. hmmm made them sleep, then only i sleep.

this morning, 6:30am, my eyes quarter-opened. n i really hope tonight, my gal friends can sleep well with my snoring :p cant wait to meet them there, been working with these 3 gals for years, >5 years, n now 1st time we go outing together. from penang, johor, pahang they will meet me at genting highlands ^_^ my collegue said, u really have the guts to do this.. ya, 3 days 2 nights outing. i must miss bbb like crazy! this morning i hug n kiss royee, 'mama gonna come back only in this sunday afternoon, be a good boy ok? listen to papa n wai po. come give mama a hug..' royee hugged n kissed me 'bye bye mummy' before i closed the door, he came out n waved bye bye to me again..

1 day, i want my bbb to be proud of me to be their parent, like how much i respect n love my parents. will do my level best, even, i have 50+ years old body age at this nearly age 30 :p

cny day-4

laogong was on mc. sis was down with flu. angel n eva were feeling better. kakak was still having sore throat. only royee was the healthy boy, non stop runnung here n there :p we ordered 2 gas tong. then i fried the left over bihun for myself. added sauce, it taste nice!

went to auntie's house cny party in the evening. day 4, now only got cny feeling. coz angel n eva are ok~! at last..

nice bakul food at auntie's house

uncles - mummy's brothers

this is nice. kakak n angel. love the color

angel finally.. smile :)

kakak, mama, gogo, kai-ma

royee n dennis - my cousin's son

cny day-1

since angels were sick, we changed our plan to stay at bkt31. cny day 1 in banting. mama told papa 'wahhh, 1st time our house is so happening with our children n grandchildren' ^_^ digo woke up early in the morning, then we all eating breakfast together. roti canai kosong. papa was so excited to have roti canai as breakfast, he even planned about it in the day before, n counted how many pieces :p

papa - wearing white, baru ONG :p
n royee n angel

2nd uncle n family visited our house

angel was moody, cried in the next pictures :~

hehe mama n baby

royee said 'zui du du'

1st day of cny, hmmm, nothing much for me. phobia to angels vomitting n diarrhea :~

cny reunion makan makan

supposed to have reunion luncheon at banting grandma's house then only dinner at sg buloh in law's house. early morning received a call from in law, to have makan makan at 11am. wear bbb new cloths, bought year back. angel n eva were so lembik :( they were so weak. they didnt smile. sad to see this. royee was so excited, especially when my mum helped him to gel his hair like daddy's hair style, he was running out from the room n to the hall, then turned back, 'wwooo.. so tired' everyone was 'hahahaha' this boy~ shy boy he is.

my royee boy was doing his business. so smelly!

angelina

evangeline

in law were happy to see the children, n they felt sad to see the 2 gals were so weak n only laying down at the room. taken some family photos, then we started our makan makan. hmmm dc31, my ex-home sweet home. some furniture arrangements have been changed. different feeling to step in the house after moving out. wondering if i would continue keeping this house till royee get married or not :p left sgbuloh at 1pm+ as angels were so cranky, non stop crying.

eva. on the way back to banting

angel. sleeping.

reached banting at 3pm+ we went to grandma's house. met uncles n grandma. non stop shonejay angels n yu jet were crying. i let kakak stayed there to help out my mum to pack things, i brought children back to parents' house.

my nephew. little yu-jet

me n sis

when bbb were sleeping, me n sis went to guardian pharmacy to buy some stuff. before that, we stopped at the massage saloon. sis spent me an hour foot massage. wow it was raining cats n dogs. the uncle told us not to get wet after massage, but then we didnt feel to stay in the shop n waiting for the rain to stop. so we running to the pharmacy, n we got wet :p

counting something..

royee and his blocks

follow grandma do cny prayer. n the prayer ends with royee's claps :p

at 12am+ it was raining, n since kakak said she wanted to see the fireworks, so we went out to see the fireworks. raining, n i need to carry royee. wow.. the fireworks were nice, but not many as compared to last year, maybe, it was raining. then all went in home n sleep lo~

go morib beach with grandpa

royee

angel

eva. yes, her left eye needs treatment

happy angel~


lovely eva~

bbb

^_^

^o^

wow~

sweet angels~

hehe~

royee~