mummy 54 bday party~

a birthday party for my mum, by my sis and myself with helping of bro in law bruce, bruce's mummy n my kai ma :) a warm n simple bday party for our dearest mummy ^_^ pls enjoy this photo post ^_^

homemade satay by me. sis helped to cucuk the ketulan ayam :p

satay kuah in the kuali. very nice taste ooo.. good compliment from my papa :D

vegetarian popiah by bruce's mummy with kai ma's help in wrapping
before fried


rice based and chicken floss by sis

preparing bihun for curry mee

sis helping in cake deco. wording by myself with white cooking chocalate

our tukang satay :p

so slow to get the satay masak. so we set up another grill pan

some over-grilled satay were done

eggplant and capsicum on grill
kai ma liked the grilled vege

some colors :)

oh! our VIP arrived!

kai ma and bruce's mummy

aiya, kuah satay missing :~

instant ketupat

kfc from mummy - our cooking is too slow :p

my grandma and cousin

oohhh yummy yummy :D

papa and angel

homemade curry noodle by sis's mum in law

ohhh sisters being wu liao :p

another one.. so the busuk one, we belum mandi :p

why this post? coz i wanted to cover my BIG tummy..

manatau, BIG arm shown :~

any special about these satay? there were oven-baked! hehe

too slow la, the grill..

ads time :p

with my gogo n cousin :p

keke

papa n eva~

aunties :p

my cute nephew~ lil' jack

yujet being bullied by xiao gu..

sisters :D my mama n my kai ma

sooooo the happy!!! gift from grandpa. mama's papa

mama said 'it is a blessing to have 80+ papa's gift on my 50+ bday' :D

yam sheng!!

i love this :D my mama is soooo happy :D

taken sweet sweet couple pic in front of bruce's mummy

sis in law cannot say NO to this crazy daughter in law already :p

showered flowers :D

small flower n big flower. bruce being forced to do this :p

while waiting for bday cake cutting...

papa sleeping too :p

sis n mama. xoxo

cutie yujet n popo

mama n her golden cucu :p

oh my boy. being scolded by ah yi

he chose the long pants n long sleeve shirt.. then get sweating :S

my eva~ love their long hair

hehe..

deng deng deng deng!!!!

my 1st homemade bday cake!!

oh~ proud of myself. at least the cake look is there :p

mummy happy with that :p

not easy to take pic with grandchildren

hehe.. nice scene

oh no.. yujet buat hal.. :~

am not ready :S

singing bday song~ mummy so the happy

make a wish..

mummy shared this to us 'i asked apple why never give me any bday gift? then apple said, the brand new toyota vios not big enough ar?' then mummy non stop hahahaha.. so the happy mood

cake cutting. hey, seriously, i was quite nervous at this stage, afraid the cake not well done, or it melted, or too hard, or....

hey, it is ok!!!!!

hehe.. tak tipu ooo.. everyone was looking forward for it..

not bad la hor :p comments received

papa: very nice, next time make it not so high

gogo, sis, myself: ohhhh.. the chocalate moist cake is tooo sweet

but my gogo taken 3 pc lo :p

yujet likes the cake too!

yujet is notti. only allow grandpa to carry when there is yummy food for him :p

the baby n the old man :)

oh..

so the comot!

^_^

dessert. longan chilled beancurd by myself :D

cousin n eva. i like eva post :)

angel is sleepy..

angels n grandpa

cousins n angels~ non stop they hahahaha

cousin guess who is who from angels patung :p

angel n eva. they very look alike recently

this is eva

this is angel

hehehe.. the next bday celebration would be on october.. for shonejay angels~ brother said, maybe, we can have a small one for yujet's bday too in september.. age 1. see how la~ i hope mama n papa r happy with this party ^_^ sis n i enjoyed about it, and maid kakak was so busy in cleaning everything kekeke :p

dyslexia?

我開玩笑地對女兒說，你快要成為英雄了。正在織圍巾的女兒，歪著頭想了想，認真地告訴我說，老師曾講過一句格言：當英雄路過的時候，總要有人坐在路邊鼓掌。她輕輕地說：'媽媽，我不想成為英雄，我想成為坐在路邊鼓掌的人。那一刻，我忽然被這個不想成為英雄的女孩打動了。這世間，有多少人，年少時渴望成為英雄，最終卻成了煙火紅塵裏的平凡人。如果健康，如果快樂，如果，沒有違背自己的心意，我們的孩子，又何妨做一個善良的普通人。長大成人後，她一定會成為：賢淑的妻子，溫柔的母親，甚至，熱心的同事，和善的鄰居。在那些漫長的歲月裏，她都能安然地過著自己想要的生活。作為父母，還想為孩子祈求怎樣更好的未來呢？

My eyes are still wet about this - 媽媽，我不想成為英雄，我想成為坐在路邊鼓掌的人

yes, why we need to force our children to be someone at the top when they just want to be a happy and kind ordinary persons? "you cant even write your name, what else u want to this when u grow up?" "ok, no milk for u tonite" :~~ Thinking of how laogong taught royee writing alphabet N last night, how laogong lost his patience, and how royee feeling suffered. I don’t want to interrupt them, but I feel hurt. Looking at royee’s half yearly report card, he is good at all levels, except holding pen to write. Maybe, this is so called dyslexia - Handwriting Dysgraphia. Been reading about this topic, royee is having most of the mentioned symptoms, but it is still early to confirm. Wait till age 5. As what the teacher mentioned, we need to give royee time. be more patience. I hope laogong don’t push royee, let royee follow his own rhythm and tempo for this learning stage. We just need to give him time n love. As we know, Thomas Edison also had learning difficulty when he was small. But he lights up the world!

Zhugong, as I told u this morning, royee is good in speech and memory. Doesn’t mean we need to have good writing skill to be a successful and good person. So pls don’t force him anymore, when I think of how royee dropping his tears last nite, my heart is feeling hurt. Lets company the boy in his learning path. As parents, we shouldn’t give up children homework, or else, who is going to guide them and care about their feeling? zhugong, hope you understand this and take royee’s feeling into consideration. To be no.1 is parents expectation, it might not be the boy’s target. Don’t let our expectation suffers the children. how I wish, I have more time to n walk together with our children in their journey. How I wish I could stop working in the office..

oh my boy~

royee boy needs mirror while taking his dinner..

1 suap nasi, 1 mirror checking his face!

lately, i found my boy is soooo particular on his outlook. while playing in the room, from time to time he looks himself in the BIG mirror, smile then continue playing. few weeks back, when he woke up from afternoon nap, i asked, 'baby, why dont u go n swiming with gal gal at the back?' he answered me with the blur look 'cannot.. later my hair no more standing' what a reason! before he slept, he just came back from the saloon, the auntie gel royee's hair.. this boy har, so the frequent he trims his hair in the saloon, not the student hairdresser, but the master shifu ok :S

yesterday, i were on leave. morning when i set them up to go to kinder, royee's face :( looked so down.. then i asked what happened, he said, his hair hasnt been gel. i said cannot gel everyday la, later your hair cannot breath. wow his face, like dark nite. finally mummy raised white flag, asked maid kakak to bring his hair gel (he has his own kids hair gel with vitamin E or something la, my mum bought it), then i comb the hair for him. WOW, u can see the sky suddenly turning from dark night to the sunny day! sun rises! royee :D i got surprised actually. hmmm yang tak boleh tahan one is, he went to the room n check his look before take his bag to the kinder!

hey, if laogong doing this har, i would suspect he got private love affair out there! but why this boy har? little small boy even wants to match his own cloth n shoes before leaving the house. the hair style la, the cloth set la.. hmmm.. n, complaining about mummy's wearing too ok! 'why this shirt is so long, like a dress, and why need to wear the pants with dress?' ohhh.. somemore telling auntie about mummy is fat!!! haiya this boy! my sis asked me to keep fit, lose weight, coz my son has been complaining me already :S guess what? royee is so concern about his food intake, not eating much coz afraid later his tummy look like uncle's tummy!

hmmm.. not easy to support this boy, even the saloon expenses also needs to save it..

marrie-biscuit steam cake

been reading this recipe from various blog, finally i tried steaming this cake. simple n nice ^_^

steaming..

nice smell. taste like ma-lai-gou (malay kueh)

saturday tea time. fried mushroom, steamed cake, kuih sago,
ginger sweet potato dessert, and kopi-o for my kai-ma

xoxo angels~

angelina

evangeline

touched! happily..

"Dear, thanks to u.aft reading ur post about ur parents travelling difficulties my Hubby was so touched.last weekend we went PD just to remember back our memories.it was fun to be in the beach side with ur loved one.thanks to u."

just got sms from arpu. what a surprise to see that my blog post does touch someone heart and something lovely n sweet happened ^_^ yes, it is always nice to have our love one beside us especially when our heart is at resting mode. peaceful n yet, feeling secured n companied. yesterday i told laogong, if i have BIG money coming in like bonus or esos from company, then i would spend myself n my sis to japan. at least, tokyo disneyland. coz this is my sis's dream place, as what junie told me, travel to japan, is really a dream comes true ^_^ i told laogong, i want to go this special place when i am still young, i can walk well, n still feeling the cutie n nice things packaging as CUTE compare to if i go there when i was at old age, then i would find those cutie stuff as - wasting money :p sort of that la. dont know how to put in right words.

then i told laogong, UK n europe countries are my dreamzzz, i will visit there with u, coz the trip gonna be expansiveeeee n u sponsor me, n we share the once in a life time memory :D in fact, last evening i had mentioned about the trip few times, laogong heard it then remained silent. finally i asked 'from just now in the train until now, when i mention to go uk with u, u never happily say yes! ok, i will bring u there.. u just dont feel to go with me huh? laogong said 'mei you la, i just felt that this is still very far for me to achieve this' well, it's ok, take our time, let me go japan 1st :p BIG dream nie :p

hope all laogong n laopo, husband b wife.. all sweet sweet and get companied till old time la~ :D

j13219 friendship day

these are the pic we taken in 1st june 2008. a year later, now eng is still flying here n there, mei has been married n going to be mummy, and me.. heart falling from iphone to sewing machine :p time flies~~~ we started our friendship from form 2 15 years old, n this year, we are age 30! every year 1st sunday of june is our friendship day, n very sorry gals, i cant make it to chatting with u on that scheduled day. let set up another day, n we catch up later lo ^_^ i miss u gals sooooo much, oh! that day i was having silly dream where eng came back, n she went n meet all bantinglang, except me!!! when i found out this, i was so sad, n eng just ignored me! i went n complained to mei, mei said 'yes i knew she came back ma' wahhhh!!!! nightmare.. :~

anyway, most important thing is, our hearts are connected, no matter how far is the distances n how long we been not meeting each other. the feeling is always on CLICK! when we meet up together. i love this :D hope friendship forever n ever.. n we celebrate our frienship day, a day in the future, n sharing our old women stories :p n maybe, sharing our menopause symptoms kekee..

love u gals~ good care n good health ^_^